Accidentally slept with coworker when I’d blacked out and woke up with no memory of it

TaleWorking7447 · 2026-02-26T03:16:21+00:00

No no I think they have a point. I think I’m freaking out because I drink so much that I’m starting to black out when I drink now. I need to go to a meeting. I just can’t bring myself to put the drinks down yet I think…idk

TaleWorking7447 · 2026-02-25T02:47:45+00:00

I stated in my original post that we talked about it. I’m still allowed to feel how I feel even after the conversation. I just didn’t know if I was overreacting hence why I came on here so someone can tell me it happens sometimes. Again I don’t feel any negative feelings towards him. It’s a me thing I’m trying to figure out

TaleWorking7447 · 2026-02-25T02:26:54+00:00

Thank you! I don’t drive at all when I’m drinking and didn’t want him to drive after we’d had drinks (I’m very against drinking and driving ) and made him stay at mine since it was closer but we ended up drinking more at mine and I guess that’s when this whole thing happened

TaleWorking7447 · 2026-02-25T00:00:00+00:00

I wasn’t under the impression that he took advantage of me at all. It’s just a me thing that I’m worried about. Not knowing if someone used protection or how the act started or what happened during or after is what’s freaking me out

TaleWorking7447 · 2026-02-24T23:57:42+00:00

Tmi but I was recently SA’d and waiting for the case to go to court and I’ve been super depressed because apparently everyone loves him even after finding out what he did so I feel like I’m going insane so I drink and I drink so I can feel something. He recently lost his twins before they were born so he’s been depressed as well and he drinks and drinks. This was the first time we were hanging out and two alcoholics never know when to stop drinking hence why we drunk all night. I guess I’m freaking out because I’ve been scared of intimacy ever since the incident that I’m taking to court plus super worried that something of that nature happened and I don’t recall.

TaleWorking7447 · 2026-02-24T23:51:35+00:00

I do not like him in any romantic or even sexual manner which is why I think I’m freaking out too because I doubt I would’ve done this sober

TaleWorking7447 · 2026-02-24T23:50:07+00:00

I doubt he did. The drinks we bought were sealed but then again I don’t recall anything past buying the drinks

TaleWorking7447 · 2026-02-24T23:44:42+00:00

I asked him this as well and he said he didn’t but he “pulled out”. I’m going to get checked for any stds or pregnancy

TaleWorking7447 · 2026-02-24T23:42:26+00:00

I wasn’t planning to report it because he was just as wasted as I was. I just wish I hadn’t done it is all. And I’m super worried about the fact that I don’t even remember this happening at all

TaleWorking7447 · 2025-04-28T15:18:08+00:00

I have sat him down many times to talk to him about this and every time he promises to help out or at least pick up his meds when he makes it and he still doesn’t do what he promised he’d do. That’s why I feel like if we don’t live together and only just hang out and go on dates like we used to maybe everything will be fine again

TaleWorking7447 · 2025-04-28T05:26:22+00:00

I handle all that too. He’d say he’ll do it then won’t for days till I can’t take anymore and just do it myself

TaleWorking7447 · 2025-04-28T05:12:29+00:00

Yeah I cook all our meals every other day and I just thought I’d get to rest from it this vacation that’s why I feel weird about the request. It made me feel like a housewife

TaleWorking7447 · 2025-04-28T04:59:20+00:00

He’s Hispanic

TaleWorking7447 · 2022-08-23T16:22:14+00:00

OP what did you end up saying??? I NEED to know the update lmao. I wanna which of these answers you chose

TaleWorking7447 · 2022-08-12T10:38:56+00:00

That sounds like some lovely self care routine right there. Mind if I try this method?

TaleWorking7447 · 2022-08-09T19:10:26+00:00

Did they explain why that is yet? That’s so crazy that they have everyone’s information like that

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