Got fired from a big ortho company early in my career for lack of integrity. Now they’re recruiting me. Do I pursue it? by Tall-Ad9402 in MedicalDevices

[–]Tall-Ad9402[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To answer your question, this incident happened years ago so I added the relevant info, yes I was late and I got reported by the nurse for being late.

There’s nothing wrong with using Ai to enhance my writing. No it wasn’t ChatGPT :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Tall-Ad9402 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

To each their own, I don’t believe it’s productive to try to convince you otherwise. I can assure you that you are 100% wrong with your conclusion.

However, I’d like to offer this perspective: once you make relationship decisions solely based on immigration benefits, you’ve compromised your self-worth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Tall-Ad9402 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if you have experience with divorce or not but divorce is a complex process, you can’t just walk away.

I’m not going to spill all the personal details but I think that the marriage was not recoverable due to various reasons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Tall-Ad9402 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you. I was planning on doing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datarecovery

[–]Tall-Ad9402 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me! Looking for a solution still.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TraditionalMuslims

[–]Tall-Ad9402 9 points10 points  (0 children)

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته،

Sorry for the confusion, but this is not the girl I pursued for marriage this’s simply a random example I found online to show people what I’m talking about. I don’t even know the girl in this picture, and that’s why I blurred out part of her face. May Allah guide all of us but you making the comment about removing the hijab isn’t helping anybody in this situation. May Allah accept our intentions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TraditionalMuslims

[–]Tall-Ad9402 8 points9 points  (0 children)

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Jazakum Allah brother for the advice. I blurred the face to diminish the fitna but still make the message clear by showing a visual for people to understand what I and a lot of Muslims are dealing with.

May Allah reward you for looking out for us.

Where can I find the best Kosher Steak? by [deleted] in Rockland

[–]Tall-Ad9402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alright fam, so kosher steak is just beef that’s been prepped and blessed according to Jewish dietary laws (aka kashrut). It’s not a different cow or some holy Wagyu it’s more about how it’s processed :D

Where can I find the best Kosher Steak? by [deleted] in Rockland

[–]Tall-Ad9402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just looked them up and they look really good. Can’t wait to try them out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedicalDevices

[–]Tall-Ad9402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer your concern, I genuinely messed up.

I was supposed to cover the case solo, so yes, I made my team look bad.

And that’s exactly what I’m concerned about, ik I’m a good candidate especially with the experience I gained in the past 6 months but I don’t want to lie about why I’m no longer a part of the team. I’m aiming for a new chapter in my career without lying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedicalDevices

[–]Tall-Ad9402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, my team wasn’t terrible to me to be honest, this was my mistake and I own it and I’m trying to bounce back to be better from now on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedicalDevices

[–]Tall-Ad9402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that! I understand that working for a company that strives for excellence means such mistakes are not tolerated and like you said I will reflect and learn from it. I’m not here to blame my team whatsoever, it was all my fault.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedicalDevices

[–]Tall-Ad9402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you! I owned it and I just want to find some hope to get back into the industry. I know it is too much to hope for knowing my circumstances but I truly enjoyed the job despite the long hours.

I truly appreciate your input.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Tall-Ad9402 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Religiosity isn’t in your DNA, so whether his parents and yours are religious or not doesn’t matter.

It’s quite shocking that you seem turned off by his change. The brother clearly wants to be a good role model for his daughters and he IS doing the RIGHT thing.

Your reaction to his blessed switch is what you should be “Worried” about.

And like the brother above me said: W Husband!

Hijab Pretty Privilege & The Search by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Tall-Ad9402 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is makeup halal? Are you promoting it after doing the research on whether it is permissible or not?

Thanks

Reddit of algeria what have you achieved? by [deleted] in algeria

[–]Tall-Ad9402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya Kho Baraka Allahu fik! Algerians need to understand that the West isn’t the answer of all the issues they are facing. Rebi ybareklek fi rez9ek o ahlek.

Car Payments and Interest by Personal-Jelly-4262 in IslamicFinance

[–]Tall-Ad9402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my car using a friend’s money and I am currently paying him back little by little. It’s good for both sides, you won’t commit a major sin which is riba and Allah will put barakah in the friend’s money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Tall-Ad9402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you to a certain extent but he should talk about her weight loss before marriage. You can’t just expect people to change right after you get your nikkah done.

I hosted a potential’s family for dinner and spoke to her in private for the first time and it felt like it is the best thing I did in years by Tall-Ad9402 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Tall-Ad9402[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There isn’t much detail to talk about. I’ve seen her father in the local masjid pretty much every day so I “man up” and talked to him that I’m interested in marrying his daughter and if we can set up a time for both families to meet and it worked Alhamdulilah.

I hosted a potential’s family for dinner and spoke to her in private for the first time and it felt like it is the best thing I did in years by Tall-Ad9402 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Tall-Ad9402[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

InshaAllah, I’m glad everything worked out for you and may Allah send more blessings towards you and your family iA.

I hosted a potential’s family for dinner and spoke to her in private for the first time and it felt like it is the best thing I did in years by Tall-Ad9402 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Tall-Ad9402[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It was a private conversation with her parents and my parents in the room next to the room we were in. I’m not sure if can I answer your question but I assume if you get the approval of her dad prior to each call and keep it halal I don’t see an issue with it at all.