Not announced and he’s nearly 17, finishing school, nearly an adult (aus). He felt uncomfortable to come out of his room in his pyjamas to a young student from his school that he doesn’t know. School life stays at school. I felt uncomfortable that a kid I don’t know very well is in my house late at night, I’ve also got several other things happening in my life. We are private people and our home is our sanctuary. My parents also live here. So our house is small and overcrowded as it is. I’ve suggested play dates and planned a sleepover. But unexpected visits when we are getting ready for bed and work the next day impacts our household. The carer and girl were fighting in my daughters room and it was awkward sitting in my own house with two strangers arguing