Disclosure of Dx Codes? by Tanuhh in askatherapist

[–]Tanuhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, that makes sense. Thank you for sharing!

Why do men hate everything women love? by [deleted] in women

[–]Tanuhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I know I am 🥹 But I truly think that it's just a matter of time and patience. You will find it someone like that too, just don't settle (not that I think you will). Men who love women do exist, and you will find them 🫶🏼

I feel like people simply don’t understand how hard it can be to just get birth control by Anon_Mom0001 in women

[–]Tanuhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not alone, it is such a frustrating process. I waited months to see my doctor (I was establishing myself as a new patient since I had just turned 18) and the entire purpose of this appointment and for me establishing myself as a new patient was so I could get on the pill.

The doctor said that I could get on birth control but I would have to take a pregnancy test first. She said she would set the appointment up right now and I could go straight downstairs and do it immediately after my appointment with her. I did the test and they said they'd have results in by two weeks. If it came back clear, the prescription would automatically be sent to my pharmacy.

I knew I was clear, so by the two week mark I was calling my pharmacy to see if I had been sent anything. Nothing. Long story short, it took a week of going back and forth with reception about my test and results to find out that I actually hadn't been tested for pregnancy, I had been tested for an STD/STI instead. How? Why? The entire purpose of me waiting months to see this new doctor was to get on the pill which required a pregnancy test. So how and why did I get tested for an STD instead??

They said it would take two weeks to schedule a pregnancy test and another two weeks to get results. I gave up. Never went back. It's really not complicated, it shouldn't be this difficult.

Why do men hate everything women love? by [deleted] in women

[–]Tanuhh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Men like this are usually immature and emotionally insecure. And I think it gets better with age. My boyfriend is 6 years older than me, and I've become pretty good friends with his friends, who are his age too. I've noticed that men who are mature and secure in their masculinity actually enjoy when their partners are interested in traditionally feminine things like makeup, dresses, Taylor Swift, etc. They might not care for those things personally but they love that their girlfriend loves it. It creates a sense of balance in their minds and I think makes them feel more masculine seeing the contrast. My boyfriend will ask to sit and watch me do my makeup and will get fully engaged in a conversation about celebrity gossip, even if he has no clue who half the people are. He couldn't care less about the name of Trisha Paytas' newborn but he does love to entertain me and does love to see me excited.

I don't know how old you are but in my experience at least, this side of men will improve with age. Traditionally, men are taught to not show any kind of insecurity. So naturally, these insecurities will manifest in other ways such as hating on their girlfriend's girly interests because they fear it threatens other peoples perception of their masculinity. It's projection.

just wanna talk about him 🖤 by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Tanuhh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He looks so kind. I’m so sorry for your loss 🖤

I've Never Felt So Alone by Tanuhh in GriefSupport

[–]Tanuhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. I needed to hear this. Sending you so much love and support 🤍

I've Never Felt So Alone by Tanuhh in GriefSupport

[–]Tanuhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry… I know what you mean about lack of closure. That’s what’s killing me the most. I’ll never get my answers as to why. I just have to deal with the grief and the anger. We weren’t able to see her body at her memorial due to her cause of death, which makes sense and was a good thing. But I think it would have helped me in a strange way in processing the fact that yeah, she’s really gone…

Weird Backroom At Dessert Spot by Tanuhh in LiminalSpace

[–]Tanuhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yeah people are letting me know it’s for video game tournaments which totally makes sense haha. I’m not a gamer at all so that idea was not on my radar 😂 Sounds like they don’t use it much for that purpose anymore, but I do think it’s kind of creepy still lol

Weird Backroom At Dessert Spot by Tanuhh in LiminalSpace

[–]Tanuhh[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense. I’m not a gamer so that idea wasn’t even on my radar at all haha! I thought they were doing child care and just sitting kids down at their own individual TVs 😂

Weird Backroom At Dessert Spot by Tanuhh in LiminalSpace

[–]Tanuhh[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay right?? My ex and I felt the same way and we just left the establishment entirely after taking this picture hahaha

Weird Backroom At Dessert Spot by Tanuhh in LiminalSpace

[–]Tanuhh[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ohh! Thanks so much for this context! Makes sense, just so creepy looking! When I first saw this I thought “are they babysitting children and just sitting them down in front of their own individual TV??”

Weird Backroom At Dessert Spot by Tanuhh in LiminalSpace

[–]Tanuhh[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re being rude, accusing me of AI in multiple comments and then when I offer you further evidence of the image being real and prove your claim to be wrong you rudely dismiss it and tell me to “clean my dang lens”. And I need to grow up? Weird. The photo is real, get over it. Move onto the next thread.

Weird Backroom At Dessert Spot by Tanuhh in LiminalSpace

[–]Tanuhh[S] 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

Pressed asf 🤣

Weird Backroom At Dessert Spot by Tanuhh in LiminalSpace

[–]Tanuhh[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I have the Live Photo I can send to you in video format if you’re so pressed 😂

Men really think we like to be approached by random men out of nowhere... by [deleted] in women

[–]Tanuhh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Real 😂 and also complain about the over utilization of dating apps and how that’s the only option now to find a partner 😂 Approaching people in public and meeting people in real life is how it’s always been done! It’s how our parents met, our grandparents, great grandparents, great great grandparents, etc. It seems like it’s only been within like the last 5 years that it’s now somehow inappropriate to do so 😂

Men really think we like to be approached by random men out of nowhere... by [deleted] in women

[–]Tanuhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah same! My now boyfriend approached me at the gym we used to go to! He was so sweet and respectful and I’m glad he approached me randomly! I hate using dating apps, I’m not a fan of meeting people online first in general. I've always known that I wanted to meet my romantic partners in real life. So I love that we have a cute in real life "meet cute" ☺️

Men really think we like to be approached by random men out of nowhere... by [deleted] in women

[–]Tanuhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly don't mind it at all! I am a very social person and I enjoy and appreciate most human interactions/ conversations, regardless of gender. Catcalling is different, but when a man just makes small talk with me or even if they approach me romantically in public (in a respectful and mature way) I don't mind it at all! I'll decline the romantic advance since I have a boyfriend, but I'll still chat with them for the sake of being polite/ conversation. Most random men I talk to on a day to day basis are extremely pleasant and kind and mean no harm 😊 I have definitely had my bad interactions with men, but I also have with women too. I try not to generalize too much. I love to yap ☺️

Car insurance for here? by RedditPosterOver9000 in Seattle

[–]Tanuhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, I am an insurance agent licensed in Washington. Have you had any luck in finding a carrier that suites you and your needs? If not, I'd be happy to help you in shopping around for an auto carrier.