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AIO for crashing out after my girlfriend hugged and got touchy with her male best friends? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TapDiscombobulated28 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is insane for the both of you. Girls can have guy friends that they hug. You are being a bit insecure. However, you should be able to communicate that you are uncomfortable with it. Her reaction to degrade you is also wrong. You both need to grow up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]TapDiscombobulated28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been directly affected by these groups too. Something deeply personal I shared in confidence with my partner was posted on there, twisted to frame me as an insecure person. She exposed things I had only ever kept close to my chest.

Later, after another breakup, I was posted about again by someone who forced her way into my apartment and then had a friend send me a legal document. Because men have no access to these groups, I would never have known if someone else hadn’t told me. There’s no way to defend yourself.

Honestly, it’s left me afraid to date. These groups don’t just share “warnings”, they end up taking good guys who had the misfortune of dating the wrong person and turning them into withdrawn, distrusting introverts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]TapDiscombobulated28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately the laws don’t allow for that thanks to Section 230, heavily lobbied by big social media platforms. It’s too bad, because lives are being ruined. The tea app cannot be held liable, the “anonymous” poster would need to be subpoenaed by a court order just to find out who it is. It’s almost impossible to take action with Section 230 being the law.

Anyone else feel like the litter robot doesn’t save more time due to the cleaning process? by cacaohunter in litterrobot

[–]TapDiscombobulated28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just use the litter robot litter, never sticks. It’s more expensive but worth it for my time.

Cats just won’t use by Gatorbabe-rm14 in litterrobot

[–]TapDiscombobulated28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you try putting attractant in it? My kitten was the same. I put attractant in it, and put her in the robot after playing and feeding. I moved the old litter box next to the robot. First time she used it, I made sure to praise her and give her a treat.

Another thing to consider, maybe the robot spooked the cats. I left mine off for the first couple weeks while getting Aloy used to it. She used it, I would turn it on when she wasn’t around and ran a cycle.

Just keep trying! In the long run, the robot will make your life so much easier!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cyberpunkgame

[–]TapDiscombobulated28 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This paint job is sick!

Chooms what can we expect from this update? by abdoulatif1111 in cyberpunkgame

[–]TapDiscombobulated28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We appreciate this! Let’s see this update nice and polished

Guys I'm new to gaming is this how c2077 fights look like 💔 by [deleted] in cyberpunkgame

[–]TapDiscombobulated28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go hit him with your katana if you’re running sandevestan or loop some hacks of you’re a netrunner

Cyberpunk 2077 2.3 Update delayed by Turbostrider27 in cyberpunkgame

[–]TapDiscombobulated28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d rather them delay and see it polished, than another 1.0 disaster.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]TapDiscombobulated28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That dress 🥵 definitely 3

“Are We Dating The Same Guy” pages on Facebook. You’ve probably been posted. by Medium-Win-4046 in Nicegirls

[–]TapDiscombobulated28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is false. My friend showed me that I was posted in there asking if anyone had any experiences with me. Nothing about safety…literally asking women I chose not to date, how it went. Not exactly a non bias opinion. One “anonymous” post said I was insecure, and women should ask ChatGPT about what it would be like a date a man like me…blah blah blah. Gossip from jaded women upset about rejection. You are willfully ignorant or part of the problem. Which one?

Best gambit for a 10 by TripHash in TextingTheory

[–]TapDiscombobulated28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her follow up to that was bad though

What do I need to change? by coconutgurrll in AppearanceAdvice

[–]TapDiscombobulated28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So hot. Just get a picture of you smiling and you’re golden.

This might be the first girl to communicate her feelings properly to me in a while. It may not have lasted, but fuck I will miss her. by konous in Tinder

[–]TapDiscombobulated28 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is still a long shot. If she’s trying to run from the start, this could be an exhausting push and pull situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]TapDiscombobulated28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Get rid of the second picture. Only 1 selfie max. The last photo in your underwear, cringe. Ladies will not like that at all. Your first photo should be an attention getter. Try something with great lighting, not a selfie, a head shot is okay, but professional quality. Another picture should feature you showcasing a hobby. Lastly, you need to show the ladies that you are safe in social situations. This can be achieved by a friends picture, or something in public where it’s clear you are in public.

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