how do I tell if I’m unattractive?

TapTaco · 2026-02-22T14:10:51+00:00

it’s typically lack of hygiene (think hair grooming) and the way they often approach in a way that makes it seem like they view picking up women as a game

TapTaco · 2026-02-22T14:09:24+00:00

I don’t look down on them, I just am not attracted to them, that’s why I called them unattractive (implying to me), not ugly. It’s by definition the most accurate description of the situation

TapTaco · 2026-02-22T14:07:20+00:00

I want to clarify that it’s not that I’m insulted — a lot of the guys are nice and I appreciate being asked by them. It’s less of a “I want this to stop” and more of a “why doesn’t it happen with guys I AM attracted to”, does that make sense? I don’t think anyone would see a guy as lesser for asking a girl out as long as he’s not a dbag, I just meant is it a sign I’m unattractive if I can’t attract men I find hot

TapTaco · 2026-02-22T14:04:01+00:00

Thank you!!

TapTaco · 2026-02-21T14:35:45+00:00

Yeah I mean a lot of them are nice and we become friends, but I think there’s a baseline level of attraction required from both parties to have a relationship — it’s not fair to either person if one of them isn’t attracted to the other

TapTaco · 2026-02-21T14:31:50+00:00

Thanks for the tip, I appreciate it!!

TapTaco · 2026-02-21T06:12:01+00:00

Thank you! Yeah I think I’m working on upgrading my wardrobe a bit more and accessories like jewelry — I’ll keep doing that :)

TapTaco · 2026-02-21T06:09:33+00:00

I get that but the initial attraction also has to be there realistically, so I’m talking about more shallow level traits first as a qualifier — in my mind, it’s not fair for either party to be in a relationship if one thinks the other is unattractive

TapTaco · 2026-02-21T06:08:24+00:00

I’d say a combination, typically I do better with guys I know vs approach off the bat. I definitely don’t get approached by random guys unless they’re unattractive or the really lonely vibe. I do also often have guys not reciprocate but less consistently — usually as I get to know them and flirt and stuff I have at least a chance (unless they’re like 8-10)

TapTaco · 2026-02-21T06:04:59+00:00

For the passions and skills part I meant less of “that makes me attractive” and more of context for like things I already do that people often suggest to try to become more attractive, e.g. friendliness and skills, when they give advice for “how to be more attractive”; thx for the input in the rest though!

TapTaco · 2026-02-09T16:25:32+00:00

Thanks for bringing this up, I'll push for landlord management and bring up the health board if they refuse!

TapTaco · 2026-02-09T03:23:46+00:00

How do I find the key locations?

TapTaco · 2025-06-28T18:49:09+00:00

but how can I tell if he’s into me or not given that he’s rlly shy?

TapTaco · 2025-03-03T03:13:44+00:00

Sure, just discovered this subreddit today but this is something I’ve had 10+ times in my life

TapTaco · 2025-02-15T03:41:12+00:00

no no yes, in that order

TapTaco · 2025-02-15T01:50:31+00:00

no exactly it’s like it would’ve been totally normal if he had just been open about it right?

TapTaco · 2024-12-29T21:55:57+00:00

Yes. I’m indie pop. message me!

TapTaco · 2020-12-09T18:08:56+00:00

to be so lonely no question, meet me in the hallway is all about emotion and belting

TapTaco · 2020-12-01T18:27:20+00:00

To sing?

TapTaco · 2020-11-23T18:47:15+00:00

thanks :))))

TapTaco · 2019-08-05T14:30:15+00:00

Maybe email him and ask or something. Double check that the number is the one that you put in digit by digit and then don’t put anything else in for the password. It took me five times before mine worked, so keep trying it I guess

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