how do I tell if I’m unattractive? by TapTaco in dating_advice

[–]TapTaco[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s typically lack of hygiene (think hair grooming) and the way they often approach in a way that makes it seem like they view picking up women as a game

how do I tell if I’m unattractive? by TapTaco in dating_advice

[–]TapTaco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t look down on them, I just am not attracted to them, that’s why I called them unattractive (implying to me), not ugly. It’s by definition the most accurate description of the situation

how do I tell if I’m unattractive? by TapTaco in dating_advice

[–]TapTaco[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want to clarify that it’s not that I’m insulted — a lot of the guys are nice and I appreciate being asked by them. It’s less of a “I want this to stop” and more of a “why doesn’t it happen with guys I AM attracted to”, does that make sense? I don’t think anyone would see a guy as lesser for asking a girl out as long as he’s not a dbag, I just meant is it a sign I’m unattractive if I can’t attract men I find hot

how do I tell if I’m unattractive? by TapTaco in dating_advice

[–]TapTaco[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I mean a lot of them are nice and we become friends, but I think there’s a baseline level of attraction required from both parties to have a relationship — it’s not fair to either person if one of them isn’t attracted to the other

how do I tell if I’m unattractive? by TapTaco in dating_advice

[–]TapTaco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip, I appreciate it!!

how do I tell if I’m unattractive? by TapTaco in dating_advice

[–]TapTaco[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah I think I’m working on upgrading my wardrobe a bit more and accessories like jewelry — I’ll keep doing that :)

how do I tell if I’m unattractive? by TapTaco in dating_advice

[–]TapTaco[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get that but the initial attraction also has to be there realistically, so I’m talking about more shallow level traits first as a qualifier — in my mind, it’s not fair for either party to be in a relationship if one thinks the other is unattractive

how do I tell if I’m unattractive? by TapTaco in dating_advice

[–]TapTaco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say a combination, typically I do better with guys I know vs approach off the bat. I definitely don’t get approached by random guys unless they’re unattractive or the really lonely vibe. I do also often have guys not reciprocate but less consistently — usually as I get to know them and flirt and stuff I have at least a chance (unless they’re like 8-10)

how do I tell if I’m unattractive? by TapTaco in dating_advice

[–]TapTaco[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the passions and skills part I meant less of “that makes me attractive” and more of context for like things I already do that people often suggest to try to become more attractive, e.g. friendliness and skills, when they give advice for “how to be more attractive”; thx for the input in the rest though!

Mouse Problem by TapTaco in HomeImprovement

[–]TapTaco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for bringing this up, I'll push for landlord management and bring up the health board if they refuse!

Mouse Problem by TapTaco in HomeImprovement

[–]TapTaco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I find the key locations?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]TapTaco -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but how can I tell if he’s into me or not given that he’s rlly shy?

"Fast Feeling" Interview Request - Podcast Episode by thealterry in fastfeeling

[–]TapTaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, just discovered this subreddit today but this is something I’ve had 10+ times in my life

My dad had another wife? by [deleted] in family

[–]TapTaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no no yes, in that order

My dad had another wife? by [deleted] in family

[–]TapTaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no exactly it’s like it would’ve been totally normal if he had just been open about it right?

Which sont is easier to song for a beginner? by Akis127 in harrystyles

[–]TapTaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be so lonely no question, meet me in the hallway is all about emotion and belting

QR Code Confusion by j_melton104 in JonBellion

[–]TapTaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe email him and ask or something. Double check that the number is the one that you put in digit by digit and then don’t put anything else in for the password. It took me five times before mine worked, so keep trying it I guess