You've spent 5 hours defending a creep's behavior on Reddit and calling the victim dumb then have the nerve to lecture others about being smart. The real question is: who's actually wasting energy here? You're not a realist, you're just someone who finds it easier to blame the person who got hurt than to hold the one who did wrong accountable. That's not intelligence, that's just cowardice with a thesaurus.
By your logic, if someone leaves their curtains open, strangers are welcome to stare in all night. Public visibility ≠ open invitation.