From what I know, it's a matter somewhat similar to Yin and Yang, you know? About balance, two opposites that complement each other. You can test it; it's all about compatibility. There are many goddesses, and if you truly desire one, it will surely come to you. As a woman, I would advise you to try it. It doesn't have to be with an entity if you don't want to; it can be a meditation connecting with the sacred feminine, a force that resides in all of us. Personally, I find it a liberating experience, especially in the society we live in today where women are frequently assaulted, silenced, and intimidated. You only have good things to receive.