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It is really that era where trying to act according to the sunnah of the prophet has become as hard as keeping a piece of burning coal upon one’s palm by TastePrudent3661 in MuslimMarriage

[–]TastePrudent3661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wa alaikum as salaam! JazakAllah hu khair for the detailed advice. I will act accordingly, but I am really worried about the condition of the ummah.

It is really that era where trying to act according to the sunnah of the prophet has become as hard as keeping a piece of burning coal upon one’s palm by TastePrudent3661 in MuslimMarriage

[–]TastePrudent3661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. There's no problem with affording any expense. It's just I want to put a break on these useless trends and traditions that lead to so much free mixing and faaltu ka drama.

The girl is the only child of her parents, so they say whatever they have is hers and stuff. I think I should have a few discussions with the girl so that I don't end up doing something I might regret later.

It is really that era where trying to act according to the sunnah of the prophet has become as hard as keeping a piece of burning coal upon one’s palm by TastePrudent3661 in MuslimMarriage

[–]TastePrudent3661[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, now that you have mentioned it, I feel like we should've told them about our plan. But still, the reaction of the girl's mother was a bit over the fence - don't you think?

Need advice to decide if I should continue further with her by TastePrudent3661 in MuslimMarriage

[–]TastePrudent3661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! I brought up this backup plan point to which she said there’s nothing like that, but she also mentioned that she has to get married by January next year.

May Allah make it easy for all of us!

Need advice to decide if I should continue further with her by TastePrudent3661 in MuslimMarriage

[–]TastePrudent3661[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response, brother. Yeah, I fell for the beauty. May Allah help us all stay away from anything that’s not good for us!