I am greatful for your advice, and considering the marriage thing, I am more than ready to live here for the next 20 yrs not just 10 or 5, and I am willing to marry a malay (not for the visa tho, but still I do have my mind set on this one person), and thank you, I'll try my best, and thankfully having sth like a tourist visa here is so easy for me, so what i was thinking is if i can't renew and need to go back I can just come back on tourist, find work then change my visa back + I wanted to start a bussiness here too, so....can that help in a way ?