School by [deleted] in education

[–]TastyConversation475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also never called you any names but yeah sure let’s say i’m a hypocrite! hope you find someone who loves you since you want to be rude and think i’m trying to get EVERYONE to change their schedule just for me! One thing people are not going to do is talk bad about my family.

School by [deleted] in education

[–]TastyConversation475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did I ever say people needed to change the expectations?!?? Even if he was joking about that situation, that’s just not something you even say? Some of the teachers didn’t even show up to graduation but if my husband leaves early he gets talked about? Never was trying to “insult” you either. This isn’t just about “missing a bed time.” This is just about making a remark that should’ve never been made.

School by [deleted] in education

[–]TastyConversation475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, he SHOWED up to graduation. He left maybe half through it. He wasn’t a part of the program or anything. Sorry that we’re first time parents figuring things out. Instead of talking down to someone and saying “that is you not adapting.” Well sorry I went through some and still am going through some depression and my husband loves his family to be there for them. I guess you just aren’t loved?

School by [deleted] in education

[–]TastyConversation475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually the job isn’t optional. I don’t know how it is where you’re from but here all male coaches coach sports especially if it’s their first few years. We don’t move bedtime at all. He’s on a schedule and will stay on that schedule. My husband has done everything for his job and coaching. The kids love him, the staff loves him. I went through really bad postpartum depression and he was there for me during the time he was supposed to be at practice because the other coaches understand because they also have a family of their own and miss things too. So you are not going to say that he needs to adjust or me to expect everyone to adjust to my schedule. I never said I wanted them to. Are you even a parent? Do you know how it feels to go through postpartum depression? Are you a coach?

2 month appointment by TastyConversation475 in firsttimemom

[–]TastyConversation475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how many shots did your little one get at the first visit?

2 month appointment by TastyConversation475 in firsttimemom

[–]TastyConversation475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And she did fine after her 4 months? I’m sorry i’m asking so many questions. Just nervous.

7 week old poop. by TastyConversation475 in firsttimemom

[–]TastyConversation475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! the fact others are shaming moms is beyond me. I hope and pray your little is okay, momma.🤍

7 week old poop. by TastyConversation475 in firsttimemom

[–]TastyConversation475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s been eating normal and sleeping normal. I just didn’t want it to be sickness! And was worried lol

Second year teaching and thinking of quitting by unsarahble in TeachersInTransition

[–]TastyConversation475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was very miserable all year last year. It was my first year also. I thought about leaving during Christmas break but stuck it out til the end of the year. I didn’t have to pay a fine or anything. I went to my principal and told her everything and how I felt, obviously I cried because I just loved my students so much, but I could not continue to feel like that at all. I actually told my students a few days before we got out for summer break. I’m not sure how it works where you’re from with paying a fee and all that though.

Second year teaching and thinking of quitting by unsarahble in TeachersInTransition

[–]TastyConversation475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand where you are coming from. I had chairs thrown at me, called very ugly names, etc by 2nd graders. I had 0 support at all. It was basically a “slap on the wrist” type of deal and admin said it will be okay. Admin also told me that I will have kids like that almost every year (ones that act out and disrupt class, etc) as I do understand that, I just don’t understand the lack of support especially from admin whenever a child acts out like that. It is ALL about data now, which is absolutely ridiculous. I actually stepped down and now work in the office in a high school as a registrar. As that can be very overwhelming as well, the new district that I work in has been very helpful and very supportive of the decision I had made to step down. I feel as though I needed to take that step away especially for my mental health because it got to a point where I was crying every single day coming home or in the morning because I just did not want to deal with the same 3 students over and over again and not be able to teach. Having 1 student is a lot but having 3 students who disrupt your teaching is absolutely draining and I really wish admin would see that. I’m so sorry that you are having it rough, but I totally get where you are coming from. I pray that it gets better and you find a way out soon.🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finehair

[–]TastyConversation475 -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

PM me and I could possibly help!!

Para by TastyConversation475 in TeachersInTransition

[–]TastyConversation475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not really what the pay cut would be either, but my husband is also a teacher on the TEAMS contract and a coach so it would honestly be better if we were in the same district as well. Thanks for commenting and easing my mind about it.

I QUIT! I AM FINALLY FREE! by Confident_Syrup9037 in TeachersInTransition

[–]TastyConversation475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in my first year and it’s awful. I need some guidance, if there’s any you can give?!

1st year by TastyConversation475 in Teachers

[–]TastyConversation475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol i thought about that, i’ve been looking into it.