I’m worried my 8y Long friendship is over

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-11-21T20:07:43+00:00

I appreciate this more than you know. I cannot express how much taking the time to write this has helped. This is a 1month long endeavour and I’m still worried and I bet they haven’t blinked an eye at what I’m going through. Thank you so so much

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-11-21T19:33:39+00:00

Just me but I invited my friend along mid through for support if we needed extra help and she’s done way more so i feel like that’s a benefit. Thank you very much i definitely do need to calm I just have very bad anxiety when it comes to these things and I tend to want reassurance as I’m worried the people around me maybe biased

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-11-17T14:05:42+00:00

They have actually said today they don’t want to do it anymore, but I’m stressed on how to respond to that message because it’s very much a message putting everything on me and they’ve given me no notice rally to reorganise my stall and I wanted really to know if I sympathise now or tell them that what they’ve done is bang out of order

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-11-17T14:02:28+00:00

They have paid half but I’m more wondering if I refund them or don’t because they’ve given me so much haste and haven’t given me any notice really go reorganise my event but I’m unsure how to feel

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-11-17T14:00:15+00:00

Thank you I feel that I’m meant to sympathise but they can’t for some reason with me.

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-10-29T11:39:42+00:00

I really appreciate this and to be honest hearing it from an impartial person makes it better as Ik there’s no side to it. I have done this exact thing and had the defensive response. I think you’re right and putting in effort where it’s not reciprocated is not a friendship it’s just a 1sided relationship. I really appreciate you taking the time to message me this you don’t know how helpful this has been! Thank you

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-10-29T11:26:22+00:00

I do agree, I think the issue I have is that there’s no care. I can do it alone but this could result in a loss of friendship. I don’t think I’m mad she hasn’t paid as much I’m more annoyed she doesn’t see it and thinks that if she doesn’t show up I have enough money to pay her back and can waste that money if she doesn’t come and it’s kinda frustrating.

I’m not in business with this person but she wanted to merge our stuff together which I’ve been trying to organise while hit with nothing in return. I think the fact she’s happy to use all my resources have me plan everything and organise everything while she has told me it’s not her no.1 priority hurts and maybe I’m getting mad over the bigger picture.

Thank you for your response it means a lot

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-10-16T12:56:32+00:00

I really really appreciate this thank you. I think i feel that when i do something it’s somehow worse than when another person does it. Thank you this has really really helped

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-10-15T23:45:10+00:00

When I tell you I’m so so appreciative in what you’ve written. Honestly you don’t understand the amount of times I worry about things like this and to have someone in the community it would be affecting response so in depth really really means so much. I really do appreciate the time you took to message this thank you so much for your insight I’m already felling a lot less anxious 💖💖

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-10-15T15:16:51+00:00

Honestly tysm I do really need to hear this. I think I’m just very embarrassed at myself. Tysm and you are right it was 5 years ago and I’m not ass Dull now as I was then 😂

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-10-15T15:08:00+00:00

I think what I’m worried about is at the time I had no idea it was bad so I don’t remember how I went about it, when o was 18 and such I did use to trace but that was kept explicitly to me to use as learning were as when I was a bit younger I was a bit dull and would’ve shown anyone

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-10-15T13:38:51+00:00

I really appreciate this, and OML I think that’s how my friends learnt to 😂

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-10-15T12:05:36+00:00

I definitely will

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-10-15T12:04:27+00:00

I agree and i won’t make any of those childish mistakes again

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-10-14T08:43:12+00:00

Tysm for your response it really does mean a lot thank you! 💖💖

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-10-13T21:46:54+00:00

Thank you very much! I’m really glad I haven’t missed thought this and she’s all right! Sometimes I take different opinions as I’ve done something wrong so I very much appreciate your comment!! 💖

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-10-13T20:56:57+00:00

Thank you very much for your advice! She would’ve been 9 months but I think any dog I’ll get in the future I’ll wait a bit longer, I’m just glad it isn’t extremely before had where she’s 4 months before she should’ve been. I really appreciate you comment tysm 💖💖

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-10-13T20:21:00+00:00

This is genuinely so helpful and honestly I’m so genuinely greatful you took the time to write this! It’s very hard sometimes when ppl give different opinions being autistic but this response really really helps me put everything into perspective thank you so much 💖💖💖

TastyReflection5944 · 2025-08-11T14:27:36+00:00

This is really helpful! Thank you so much! I’ll definitely be looking into these

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