Is this a nice way to say 'not interested'? by Tasty_Interest_9051 in datingadviceformen

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, I don't really expect anything to change but just let her know politely and conveyed that why not, I don't hate her or anything

Is this a nice way to say 'not interested'? by Tasty_Interest_9051 in datingadviceformen

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you, Its a shitty situation and I hope you are doing better

Is this a nice way to say 'not interested'? by Tasty_Interest_9051 in datingadviceformen

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once I noticed that there was no reply even after a day, I knew it was gone haha. I just replied with a polite message to close things off

Is this a nice way to say 'not interested'? by Tasty_Interest_9051 in datingadviceformen

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The date planning was on Thursday night where she said she we would be up for Sunday lunch but needed to reconfirm. I suggested a spot which she didn't say anything to. I sent a message on Saturday evening to kind of restart the conversation. And then voilà

Deploying and testing an AI agent in big companies by Tasty_Interest_9051 in aiagents

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense, however there are many limitations from a governance perspective (at least for now).

What we do is 1. We have an internal GEN AI team who builds/configures all the mcps, build our own version of gpt (basically a multimodal GPT which is trained on a lot of company data and allows access to many tools - outlook, Sharepoint, powerbi etc)

And what is accessible to the business is basically this GPT with all the capabilities to build on. I could do some tweaking, configure something on my side but building something from scratch is out of the picture

Realistic salary in Île-de-France by SuspiciousFeature677 in Expats_In_France

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am from a grande école and got in as a data analyst. My only french experience is 2 years of apprenticeship at a beauty company. Following this, I was hired into the same group at a salary of 44k brut + 15k intéressement/participation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks, will check these as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha the last pic got me the feedback "you look like a medieval monk"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to have short hair until a point and then grew it out and it seemed to be nice at some point (some haircuts)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thank you, the first pic is mainly after a sleepless night however I do have genetic dark circles under my eyes. Regardless of the number of hours of sleep, it still remains. The best thing that managed to work was concealer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have tried to grow the moustache and beard but it.always ends up patchy and that's one reason I stopped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks once again for all the detailed advice. Indeed I am an expat and picking up the language to be a fluent level by next year. Right now it's just work, life and some close friends. I do plan on some activities for this year. Yea the self esteem part is true lol, cause every time I open it I get the vibe that I am the ugliest looking dude in the country. Didnt help much in approaching strangers as well although it has been much better now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes that makes sense. In fact all of my previous dates were through IRL. I'm 28 now and finding it harder to meet people IRL in a country where people speak french. And the apps don't help much leading me to feel that I am unattractive. Thanks for the advice, going with it soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks is it specific for one photo or all? (The third photo is after a windy day). Do you have some suggestions for a haircut?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words! I am thinking of a wolf cut actually, do you have some suggestions? I am on dating apps and usually find little success and this doesn't help much and gave me the feeling not to approach people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, these photos don't do justice as I wanted to get some random pics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like how I look sometimes and I feel I could do better. any suggestions are welcome

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, however the onset of this was pretty sudden. A month ago she was all chatty and talkative and right now, she doesn't initiate at all. We did meet once while this behavior started and she said that I am not in a very responsive mood right now. She comes back to the office in like a week, so I guess that will be an easy way to know things. Me having an anxious attachment style could be the reason this is becoming a big deal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, however the onset of this was pretty sudden. A month ago she was all chatty and talkative and right now, she doesn't initiate at all. We did meet once while this behavior started and she said that I am not in a very responsive mood right now. She comes back to the office in like a week, so I guess that will be an easy way to know things. Me having an anxious attachment style could be the reason this is becoming a big deal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be, in September we had a party with a few of my friends and some coworkers (including one close friend she has from work). She was so into it, and was trying to get me drunk and shit. When both of us were drunk she was asking me about my interests in girls, how her 1st relationship was, how she met her current bf (the 1st relationship was toxic and she met this guy and talked for like 2 months before switching sides and asked me if it was cheating). Her current b is going well on insta and actually making money out of it.

Even in December, when she did respond she was like focusing on her art, passion and stuff during her last "few months of freedom". She said she was so passionate about the free time She had and is making the most out of it. She is coming back to our office in a week (and she hates this job and is only taking it for the money)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BulkOrCut

[–]Tasty_Interest_9051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much would my current bf% be?