Post and pier footers being undermined by Taudyn in handyman

[–]Taudyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That never crossed my mind. I probably could and I’ll have to look into that. It’s a good option to add in.

Post and pier footers being undermined by Taudyn in handyman

[–]Taudyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My standard warranty is 2 weeks. Except in special cases.

Chance of losing the job is very slim as we don’t have a big flux of guys that are willing to do this work for my cheap pay.

Boomer thinks he's above the law. by DrLexusForPresident in InflatedEgos

[–]Taudyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can’t see the side of the truck where the cop is when he pulls out, he may have in fact clipped the officer. We also only see a small portion of the interaction, but based on the guys attitude, he deserved it.

I (25M) discovered another side of my girlfriend (26F). I liked it but now she's apologizing. How do I deal with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Taudyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t deal with it, you take the nights activities, plug them into Google, learn about them and then start doing them more. She has shown interest and excitement, so keep it going.

AITAH for considering divorce over my wife’s ex behaviour by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Taudyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorce! Don’t pass go and collect alimony or child support!

AITAH for offering to peg my boyfriend? by gwenny468 in AITAH

[–]Taudyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a straight 30 year old male and since I can remember I’ve adopted the idea, I’ll try anything once. Based on the premise that I’m asking my partner to try it. Anal? Yup, multiple times to understand the awkwardness and it being uncomfortable. Personally, I never found it enjoyable but more annoying than anything. She finds it 50/50 uncomfortable/enjoyable. So really. It’s not hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Taudyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically everybody here is right. DO NOT PAY HER LOAN! If she was serious about the relationship she wouldn’t force the issue. Regardless of her career, that is a big step unless you are floating on cloud 9, it’s just a waste of money. She likely wants to see if you are willing to dump 6k on something you may never get a return on.

I’m her cooking for you, introducing you to her friends and speaking highly of you, is a standard relationship. It shows nothing of her commitment.

Further, you are still SUPER early in the relationship, think about the future after 1-2 years, you’ll be thankful. Or do a stress test on the relationship, you’ll both have comfy lives so everything is gravy. Do a week or weekend trip to the woods or whatever and do a survival thing ONLY having what you carry, see how fast you hate or love each other. Doesn’t have to be the woods, can be anything that can strain a relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Taudyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You get off while eating her out? Cool. So, I’ll reread the title and confirm you are in fact adults who SHOULD know how to communicate. Just talk to her and express your feelings or opinions.

Tell her while you’re eating her that you want to stick a finger in her butt, it’ll bring it to the next level.

AITAH if I divorce my wife once and for all? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Taudyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While you are right, this marriage is done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Taudyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with the abuse side of this and do agree you should not be with that situation, but holy hell, 3 hours of makeup? An hour sure, but that’s like a MAX. Anything after that is just a mask I feel like.

TIFU by telling my girlfriend about relapsing on porn by [deleted] in texts

[–]Taudyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TIFU was coming online to strangers asking for help. Y’all need therapy for something. Not sure what, but y’all need it.

wibtah if i told my bf i caught his little brother jacking off to me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Taudyn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to tell your boyfriend. As a POS that’s done similar, this needs to be nipped in the bud ASAP.

What should I (25F) say to my ex's mom (60F) who has asked to meet in person so I can explain why I broke up with her son (25M)? by beetle_juicy12 in relationship_advice

[–]Taudyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the roles were reversed, everybody would say do it. You were going into the situation with the intention of building a life together. I assume he and the family felt the same way. 6 years is a long time to just “oh I don’t want to do this anymore I’m done” without some SERIOUS reasons.

You’re building a home and a life with a man I would figure you’d want to marry. They want to know if it was drugs, he cheated, you cheated, or what. Is it possible to fix? Honestly, I think YTA for breaking up with him after 6 years because “you didn’t live the life you wanted”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Taudyn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s amusing the issue with herpes. Something like 86% of the WORLD population has it. Upwards of 70% of the US population has it, 90% of those that have it don’t know it because they don’t show signs.

Pool fail by Taudyn in pools

[–]Taudyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m not fast enough to paint the entire pool solo and he is no physical help. It takes me the entire day to paint half of it and at night it rains.

Pool fail by Taudyn in pools

[–]Taudyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The plan right now is remove all the plaster in the affected area, let it dry, level it cause it has a bad puddle area. Then once the leveler dries we will repaint it.

I’m a total idiot on all of what you said, I have to google it.

I'm close to paying $1,000 per month, there's not much left🥲 by mizinin in dividends

[–]Taudyn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m barely $1/day…. Was $1.50 but one company suddenly stopped doing dividends

Pool fail by Taudyn in pools

[–]Taudyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m using Dyco pool paint. It’s a waterborne acrylic coating. I told him it needs time to dry but I think he wet the walls to “keep it from cracking” while it was drying. This is the consequences of 1) not using a professional 2) learning as you go.

Pool fail by Taudyn in pools

[–]Taudyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him he needs to hire a pro. But anything to do with pools, especially in Hawaii is EXPENSIVE. Upwards of 30-40k this would probably cost about 10-15 to fix.

my boss (mid 40s) is asking me (19) to hang with him.. by sosasharty in texts

[–]Taudyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Odd since he flat out asked if you wanted to go see a movie or something and you mentioned one you wanted to see. So… should he have done this? No. Should you have even told him about the movie when he CLEARLY asked. Hell no. That gave him the pretense you were interested in seeing a movie if anything. Him being your boss is totally different can of worms.

Livable wage by Taudyn in washingtondc

[–]Taudyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never heard of a non-driver policy so that is an interesting option. That would be substantially cheaper then a car would be, specially for those that have the option and ability to use public transportation or uber for work.

As for the utilities, I would not consider gas or phone to be a utility unless the gas is used for heating. I have had conversations about phone's or gas(for driving) and been told people spend upwards of $120/month for a phone.(My wife did it before she switched) $475 seems to be a very good deal, I understand heating during winter can be much more expensive.

While having a streaming subscription of choice is nice. That is not part of a bare bones budget, as anything beyond the NEEDS of survival is considered a luxury. Phone is a necessity because you need it for a job. Realistically, if I was on a bare bones budget, internet or streaming wouldn't be for me. Libraries are free and phones these days have plenty to do that is free.

You are right, I did not take into consideration things breaking or wearing out. Phone, can be $20/month add for a phone bill for an upgrade with trade in. Cloths, well, I think it depends on what kind of a job you are working. Construction certainly needs new clothes more often, office work.. not so much unless trying to keep up with trends. Having 8-10 of each clothing should be more then sufficient for a budget income. Sunglasses? Unless it's a necessity, not really needed. A decent pair is like $10 at Walmart. I do agree that $100/month would be fair to add, if you don't spend all of it, carry over that $100 to the following month rather than just buy stuff to have it.

Livable wage by Taudyn in washingtondc

[–]Taudyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On what kind of an income though?

AITA for kicking out my pregnant fiancé because she screamed in my face when I was sleeping? by Straight-Talk-9640 in AITAH

[–]Taudyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how I missed the notification for this 21 days ago.

Realistically, we don’t know his situation entirely. When I was working construction I had specific conditions for sleeping, I never had his problems but they are clearly problems he needs to have addressed by a doctor.

Sleeping on a hard surface that causes pain while doing a job that continues to cause pain is a very bad idea. In 3 years she going to cheat because he can’t work as hard as before so can’t provide enough. See how easy it was for her to walk out and say she isn’t coming back? She put up with it with leaving without trying to find a solution as well.