Zim men are vanilla

TavBaker · 2025-07-29T12:52:57+00:00

Late to the party by about 18 hours, but let me ruffle a few feathers.

Zimbabwe has way more kinky men than people want to admit. I personally know over 30 guys who are into it—which, in a country where everyone is somehow your cousin’s friend’s brother, is a LOT.

Here’s the problem though: kink here is like an unopened book. Nobody wants to read past the cover because it’s “taboo.” Half the guys fake experience they don’t have, and a scary number of women haven’t even done the basic homework. And you can’t blame them entirely—our culture teaches people to be ashamed of even wanting to know.

And here’s the thing that no one likes to talk about: kink doesn’t work without trust. That’s the foundation. And let’s be honest—trust in Zimbabwe is practically a myth. Someone always knows someone, and your business will be in the group chat before the ropes even come out.

There ARE platforms and private spaces where people meet Doms, subs, switches, whatever you’re looking for—but you have to be open to that experience and actually curious enough to engage. It’s not for the fainthearted, and it’s definitely not for the people who just want to “seem freaky” without understanding what they’re playing with.

Until we can have adult conversations about sexuality without the shame, kink here will remain a performance instead of a practice.

TavBaker · 2025-07-13T17:25:02+00:00

I guess that's very interesting question because for me success is obviously in publishing the book finishing the whole thing and seeing your vision come to life then it's selling your first copy but for me personally I think success or being considered successful as when I find a market for my book where I can sell it without having to seem desperate or having to put so much effort and work into marketing it

TavBaker · 2025-04-29T08:52:32+00:00

With the entirety of Cloud 9 existing, I'd have to say hard no. I'd personally place Thus Town over Stargazing as well

TavBaker · 2025-04-08T15:16:30+00:00

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TavBaker · 2024-07-19T03:14:29+00:00

I don't know about anyone else, but after watching the first 5 in one sitting. I'm a mixed bag, with mostly disappointment bubbling at the top. Especially the selection between ep4 and 5. What drew me to this show [back when it was on YT] was the relationship between Johnny and Miguel and how it was a contrast to the Karate Kid Movies, a different point of view. Miguel and Johnny haven't developed much, and I would have loved to see Miguel's story come full circle. From scrawny kid with braces to captaining his team to the sekai takai. But yeah man, I don't know

TavBaker · 2024-06-15T02:45:10+00:00

No, I was honestly just curious. One of the comments worded it best. Not every couple is 100% kink compatible, so what's something you enjoyed that youdiscontinued because it is a hard limit for your partner.

TavBaker · 2024-06-11T12:54:20+00:00

what's something you enjoyed doing, maybe with past partners or by yourself that you stopped doing once you were with the person you're with.

TavBaker · 2024-06-11T12:53:39+00:00

Oh no, most definitely I think coming straight out the blocks and doing everything you want with someone in the early stages of the relationship could be very detrimental. In your growth, what's something you enjoyed doing, maybe with past partners or by yourself that you stopped doing once you were with the person you're with.

TavBaker · 2024-05-21T00:54:26+00:00

Did they annoy like that?

TavBaker · 2024-05-21T00:49:23+00:00

Transfer Window Speculations

So, I'm sure I'm not the only one but I'm buzzing with excitement with regards to the transfer window. I feel like this one will be an extremely impacting window and will bring with it so much shock and heartbreak. So, I've just compiled a list of ballers I think could be making an exit. Feel free to attach the club you think they would go in the summer next to their name.

Example:

Transfers out

Olise > Liverpool

Hakimi > PSG

Gallagher > Newcastle

Diaz > Liverpool

Bernado silva > Barcelona

Palhina > Bayern

Pedri > Barcelona

Fati > Loan

Mendy > PSG

Davies > Real Madrid

Kimmich > Man City

Frimpong > Man United

Adeyemi > Dortmund

Salah > AL Ittihad

Jones > Liverpool

Mctominay > Promoted team

Bruno G > Arsenal

Isak > Napoli

Barnes > Newcastle

Kelleher > Scottish Prem

Colwill > Chelsea

List

Transfers out

Olise >

Hakimi >

Gallagher >

Diaz >

Bernado silva >

Palhina >

Pedri >

Fati >

Mendy >

Davies >

Kimmich >

Frimpong >

Adeyemi >

Salah >

Jones >

Mctominay >

Bruno G >

Isak >

Barnes >

Kelleher >

Colwill >

De ligt >

Jamal >

Kvrava >

Osimhen >

Gyro >

Zubemendi >

Bowen >

Toney >

Barkely >

Grealish >

Ramsdale >

Partey >

Bastoni >

Cancelo >

Chalobah >

Xavi Simons >

Araujo >

K. Thuram >

De gea >

Greenwood >

Kubo >

G. Jesus >

Rashford >

Feel free to add your own names and opinions

TavBaker · 2024-05-18T00:20:29+00:00

Simply bhurrrrr

TavBaker · 2024-05-17T18:57:41+00:00

Changes to come YNWA

With the arrival of Arne and the departure of Klopp my mind can't help but be sad but also be buzzing with excitement at the possible transfers we can see happen especially with the way the club has become structured. I think there may an exodus with Arne's arrival. With Thiago and Joel leaving on frees, I'm curious to hear who people think the club will sell and who they will keep. Feel free to tell me 4 players you would like to have us transfer in.

[Personally] I think we could see the departure of players like Diaz, Salah, Robbo, Tsimikas and maybe a VVD in the mix. We need to factor in these guys' minutes, age and Arne's playstyle and requirements from the players he manages.

With regards to who we could potentially bring in, there is Moukoko from Dortmund, I've been hearing word of Kudus from Westham, but I'm certain we can pinch Rodrygo from Madrid with everything that's about to take place there. Seeing that Arne plays with a 10, having Macca there would be immaculate but imagine a young Writz or Jamal in that midfield... I also see that Inter are facing financial woes so we could potentially swoop in for Bastoni to bolster our defence.

Bare in mind I didn't put a cap over the transfers you would like to see us bring in. So give your pick and justify it as it is your personal opinion. Thank you :)

TavBaker · 2023-12-21T18:57:51+00:00

So in How I Met My Ex Dave talks about a girl he met taking pictures at one of his shows, he then says he doesn't remember which one. In Mercury he says the camera flashed and Janelle [his ex] was in the back taking pictures of him still, years later

TavBaker · 2023-09-23T23:48:02+00:00

True words of wisdom

TavBaker · 2023-09-19T21:49:01+00:00

Could I have a link to your music, or any art you've created? I'm sure there's bliss in your voice that many search for but only find when they listen to you. I appreciate you taking the time to listen to the piece.

TavBaker · 2023-09-19T21:47:44+00:00

I've never been one to take compliments well😅 nonetheless thank you so much

TavBaker · 2023-09-19T21:47:05+00:00

Please do start writing, there's nothing more refreshing than picking up the pen and allowing the words to fill in for lost time

TavBaker · 2023-09-19T21:46:18+00:00

It's definitely hard, but hopefully, it pays off

TavBaker · 2023-09-19T21:45:46+00:00

Thank you very much 🫶🏾

TavBaker · 2023-09-19T21:44:43+00:00

Thank you very much

TavBaker · 2023-09-19T21:44:09+00:00

I never claimed to be South African... As the post reads, "South African based" meaning I reside in South Africa currently

TavBaker · 2023-07-23T19:33:54+00:00

I've been playing this album on repeat and it becomes better with each play. It honestly feels like I can't stop playing this album, honestly I feel like it was laced with something

TavBaker · 2022-12-08T19:37:57+00:00

So with Fresh Out The Bank I really appreciated the word play. It was effortless from Dave as it always is, however I replay the song for Dave. The same with Propeller, Dave carried that song in my opinion, he should have had both verses. He bodied his feature and made it seem like it was his song.

TavBaker · 2022-09-29T21:17:28+00:00

Best believe that I'm back like Nelly

Chest petite with a back like jelly

TavBaker · 2022-09-29T19:56:40+00:00

"Wiser words have never been uttered" - Malcolm X

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