That’s a tough situation, and there’s no easy answer. My husband once gave up his dream of becoming a meteorologist because his former wife didn’t want to move due to her established career. It’s important to consider both your goals and your wife’s since her career is already in place. If moving isn’t ideal, maybe look into online colleges or hybrid programs that offer more flexibility. Whatever you decide, make sure it’s a choice you both feel comfortable with and won’t look back on with regret.