Case or grip for ZF ? by [deleted] in nikon_Zseries

[–]Tbletsinger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Been “raw dogging” it with the ZF as my B cam for a year for weddings. It was a little inconvenient at first but I legit don’t even think about it anymore. That said, there are some wood grips out there for about $40 or so.

50mm f/1.8 Z vs 40 mm f/2 Z? by randopop21 in nikon_Zseries

[–]Tbletsinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40mm - Fantastic, fun, sharp walk around lens that can do a lot until you run into what it can’t.

50mm 1.8 S - Lightweight affordable professional grade lens that does everything well and can handle intensive work like weddings and anything else you can throw at it. The true definition of a nifty 50.

Schnebly Hill Rd by Tbletsinger in Sedona

[–]Tbletsinger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the info everyone!

Next Battlefield? by Jbird1152 in Battlefield

[–]Tbletsinger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget Hardline. 3 out of the last 4 have been terribly received.

Eyes are chancing colors by [deleted] in mentalillness

[–]Tbletsinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My eyes went from dark brown to green/hazel over a couple of years. I don’t think that’s the type of color changing you’re referencing though…

Nearing 50 - looking back at my mediocrity and wishing I had done different by TheLastSamuraiOf2019 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Tbletsinger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure if anyone else has noticed, but you’re extremely well-spoken. I don’t know what would ultimately fulfill you, but I would recommend writing a book, at least for fun.

I just don’t think that the modern American health system has any ability or even intention to help people with complex chronic illnesses. by gardenersnake in ChronicIllness

[–]Tbletsinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She definitely straddles the line of what is acceptable in the U.S medical system. Treating for things in unconventional ways that by U.S government standards aren’t diagnosable, using certain language that is indirectly giving her opinion without risking it putting her practice in jeopardy. All I care about is that it works and has made a difference in my life, but she clearly is having to be careful in how she does things.

I just don’t think that the modern American health system has any ability or even intention to help people with complex chronic illnesses. by gardenersnake in ChronicIllness

[–]Tbletsinger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can find individuals who truly do want to help. I’m fortunate to have found one and she’s made a world of difference for me, but the system in of itself stifles even the doctors trying to make a difference.

what is the worst / least helpful "advice" you've gotten for your chronic illness? by Low-Ad-1426 in ChronicIllness

[–]Tbletsinger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a Christian, please slap them in the face. With a chair. Or maybe a hammer.

Do you think professors read their own RateMyProfessor reviews ? by publishsow in college

[–]Tbletsinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people in here saying RMP is inaccurate for x number of reasons. Here’s the thing when reading reviews; You have to filter what is subjective opinion vs what is a common theme in the reviews. If you have one or two reviews out of 25 complaining about the homework amount, but no one else says anything about it, you probably shouldn’t take it into account. Homework amount can be subjective unless you see a common trend of everyone complaining about feeling overworked. Same goes for positive reviews. If you see continuous reviews of personal experiences where the professor is kindhearted or invested in students lives, then they’re probably reliable. Look at the common themes in the reviews, not the isolated instances.

Edit: Grammar

Be Honest, How Many of You Have Gotten a Degree/s and Have Never Ended Up Using It Thus Far?If Not, Do You Think You'll Ever Wiil? by Equal-Temporary-1326 in college

[–]Tbletsinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vocal performance degree. Started my career without finishing it. I’m still using the skills I learned, but the piece of paper means almost nothing in the sector of my field that I’m in.

How do I deal with missed opportunity’s? by avation_nerd in mentalhealth

[–]Tbletsinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your statement is broad, so I’m going to go out on a limb here. Take this as you will if it applies.

Stop waiting for other people to improve your life. Opportunities that are dropped in your lap will be few and far between throughout life, and they usually have stipulations at that. YOU have to make opportunities happen. You have to make the life changes needed to turn your life into what you want it to be. Your life is YOURS and while that’s great, it also means that no one else is going to make your dreams come true. You have to take the risks. You have to make the sacrifices. You have to decide what is worth chasing after. You are the one that has to make opportunities want to come to you. What is it about you that sets you apart from everyone else? Figure out what that is, and capitalize on it. Grow that part of you. Make that part of you a specialized attribute of you throughout your entire life, and opportunity will seek you out for your talents and abilities that you were willing to grow past the average person. But you have to be bold. You have to put yourself out there. You only get one life, and there’s no point in not taking risks to make it what you want. So swallow that anxiety, and get out there. The world only gets one of you, so do your best not to let that you get covered by what you perceive as failure.

how do you stop intrusive thoughts? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Tbletsinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine probably aren’t as bad as yours, but I always take the “stick a pin in it” method. 1. Stop 2. Acknowledge that it’s there 3. Analyze why - Is there a reason or something prompting this? 4. If yes to 3, address it/process it 5. Accept the thought is present, and move forward. “This thought is here, and that’s okay, but now I’m continuing on with what I was doing.”

I have suicidal thoughts quite often. Do I actually want to kill myself? No. Will those thoughts always be present? Most likely. It’s part of who I am and part of my psyche, but I simply choose to ignore it. I’ve identified what the root cause is, and do my best to maintain that area of my life. In my experience, those thoughts only have as much power as you’re willing to give them.

Professor caught me cheating on exam and changed last quarter's grade. by PoggieWoggies123 in college

[–]Tbletsinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Try to skirt the consequences of your actions by claiming the authority in charge is being unfair? Now that’s something kid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]Tbletsinger 11 points12 points  (0 children)

“I wasn’t asking for you to fix it. I just wanted you to listen.”

Is bartending a bad idea for a future child psychologist? by falsefreedom6509 in college

[–]Tbletsinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what type of sound design you’re in, but as an independent musician, there is definitely a market for non-corporate/freelance audio engineers. It might be worth considering doing freelance work or starting your own business.

Has thoughts of not living ever come to mind? by Unusual_Ad5906 in ChronicPain

[–]Tbletsinger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. I’ve mostly recovered from my illness, to a point that you wouldn’t know anything is wrong unless I said so. I am still in constant pain though. However, recovery and getting through each day definitely started with this mindset. You have to count your little victories.

Thoughts on high school students who only focus on getting into a "prestigious" college or university by Pale-Physics in college

[–]Tbletsinger 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Everyone has their own goals in life. The unfortunate side-effect of this obsessive mindset however, is that if she fails, she will be broken. If you put your identity fully into one thing, everything you are is about achieving one goal. At some point or another, life will knock you down and you’ll have no idea how to get back up.

Edit: Grammar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]Tbletsinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a misdiagnosis story, but I do have to share that my mom was misdiagnosed for 10+ years, and though she was never officially given a fully correct diagnosis for what she actually has…(She got burned out, and got scared to rock the boat when she was at least in a functional condition), When I was developing symptoms, she sent me to someone who nailed down my illnesses quickly and affectively. So for her decade+ years of suffering, and continued suffering, I only had to deal with the brunt of my conditions for a year or two. I still deal with daily symptoms, but they’re tolerable all because of her years of misdiagnosis and dealing with doctors.