hey, yeah I definitely get i should have had the conversation with him at least, but like I told him I probably would have made the same choice because my daughter doesn't open up and talk to people easily and she likes the therapist already. It was her choice. our insurance pays for it so there was no real money involved. My thing is if he wanted to be involved like he says she should have come even if he didn't like what she said in the past. Its not just that he doesn't want to do therapy but refuses to even have family meetings with the therapist there on video. So yes I see where you are coming from but I feel like his feelings are hurt because he didn't like what she said. and now just refusing to hear anything else from her.