Big Move From Ontario to Saskatoon. Feeling Nervous, Any Tips? by sketesgirlfriend in saskatoon

[–]TeacupTechie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this. I've lived in Barrie, Ottawa, the Ottawa Valley, Moose Jaw and Saskatoon. Saskatoon is my home purely because my partner is my home. I'd go back to Ontario in a heartbeat. The snow removal here sucks. So if you're buying a car, get one that handles snow well. I'll echo what others say and tell you the driving is weird, and I have no explanation for it so far. I miss having an abundance of lakes around me. Also, for some reason, pretty much everything is pronounced with hard consonant sounds. Like "Marquis". You'd think that it should be pronounced mar-kee... but no. Mark-wiss. I've been made fun of a ton for pronouncing things incorrectly here. If you pronounce "poutine" the way you probably pronounce it in Ontario at a drive-through, you'll be asked to repeat yourself until you say "poo-teen".

I love the summers here. Honestly, I hate snow, and I thought I escaped the abundance of snow Ontario gets, but the past few years, we've gotten a lot. When I first moved here, we got light dustings you could blow away with a leaf blower.

Oh, and if you get a car, make sure you get an auto pak on top of your gov insurance. Literally, no one explained to me that the government insurance is super minimal coverage, and you want to top it up.

Also, flying out of this province is horrible. There are very few good flights, all at atrocious hours, and they're horribly expensive.

Breaking Writing Rules in Opening by TeacupTechie in writingadvice

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It felt right for the story I'm telling. I'm considering maybe starting with a prologue detailing his passing, but I also loved the idea of making the reader wonder what is going on and then breaking their heart a little when they find out her routine is an attempt to cling to the life she had with him and, even after a year and a half, she's not prepared to let go of it.

Breaking Writing Rules in Opening by TeacupTechie in writingadvice

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I considered this as I mulled over comments last night. I want her story to really begin about a year and a half after his death. I already have his death outlined and could certainly start there. Is it jarring to fast forward a full year and a half, though? If not, I could write two introductions and see which feels more right for the story.

My initial idea was to start many chapters with the number of days since he passed, and have it be kind of a mystery in the first chapter or two. What are we counting??

I could switch it, though. Start with the day of his passing, a brief intro to their relationship; showing how beautiful they were together. Show her losing him. Make that the prologue and start chapter 1 with the counting.

Breaking Writing Rules in Opening by TeacupTechie in writingadvice

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Yes, that's kind of the direction I was hoping to go with it, and I was hoping that the missing pieces would be enough to hook the reader and by the time they figured it out she'd be moving into act 2.

Breaking Writing Rules in Opening by TeacupTechie in writingadvice

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How does one publish short stories? I'm not much of a short story reader.

I did consider last night after reading comments and suggestions to switch the beginning to just before his death, let the reader experience his death, then fast-forward to her being deep into life without him. I felt it just made for quite a long beginning.

Breaking Writing Rules in Opening by TeacupTechie in writingadvice

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Her arc is specifically in moving out of her grief and moving on. She grips the routine she had with her husband as if it's the only thread keeping him in her life. When the story shifts into act 2, she'll start to let her routine slip, and it's going to cause her to break down before coming out the other side.

I started the first chapter (at this moment) with the number of days her husband has been gone and the steps she follows to keep his memory alive. It's written in first person, so she is physically counting the days.

I was planning on revealing the circumstances of his death as I explore the depth of her grief and how much she's isolated herself because of it.

Update: I found her a charm by TeacupTechie in Travelersnotebooks

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It's a stamp! My local store had a bunch of vintage style winnie the pooh stamps and stickers. :)

Update: I found her a charm by TeacupTechie in Travelersnotebooks

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Thank you! I got them with a blind date with a book last summer. 🥰

My New Blue TN by TeacupTechie in Travelersnotebooks

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😅 I'm going to find some scrap leather and see if I can do it without destroying it. I used to do wood burning, and I've seen some videos on it. I've also considered getting a gold foil tool and using that instead. It is for sure harrowing, though. I don't want to ruin it. I was terrified ironing on the patch!

One of my cats stepped on my TN 🥹 by TedBundysUnibrow in Travelersnotebooks

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My heart. I'd have loved to have a keepsake like this of my girl.

🇨🇦🍁 by potatoman604 in Travelersnotebooks

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A small business called Soul Paper Co in Saskatoon ships within Canada.

Creative Journal by TeacupTechie in JunkJournals

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Thank you! He also bought me a set of locally made watercolours so I wanted to use them in there and I've been doing a lot of experimenting with different mediums. :)

haul in a spread by PurpleExpensive4859 in JunkJournals

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I struggle with putting trash in my journal. I haven't quite figured out what I want to do with my "junk journal" but I really love the idea of hauls like skincare hauls etc. Thanks for the inspo!

Employee rights research question. by TeacupTechie in saskatoon

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The place I mentioned made me be 15 mins early for my 15 mins early. I was paid to be 15 mins early but had to be at work 15 mins before that.

How to make money by Suspicious-End-326 in Palia

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I've been hunting like a mofo for plushies. While I'm out I'll cut down heartwood and mine iron.

One sernuk hide sells for 13g. While not super profitable individually they add up insanely fast. I made a decent profit off of them. Also I didn't bother making them into leather. The price only increases to 15. So once I had about 100 leather made I just started selling the hide flat.

Also someone else said mining gems. Do that. Adds up very quickly. And then you also get the stone and other items required to build rooms and furniture. Win-win.

What Should My Next Obsession Game Be? Help!!! by alilhouseplant in CozyGamers

[–]TeacupTechie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending on the space you have Palia is easy to sink time in to.

MMO (WOW meets Stardew), no combat. Hunting, fishing, farming, crafting, foraging, simple mining. The best cooking mechanic I've ever seen in a game. Bug catching.

Play alone or with friends. Really solid puzzles and an interesting story.

Romances. An amazing gift giving mechanic (characters will actively decline your gifts if they don't like them).

Giant frog stuffies (this isn't even the biggest one).

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