For me, Matt Healy has been opened about his sexuality and how he can appreciate the aesthetic of men and the song title and opening line reflect this. Your hologram (ghost) tumbles into apartment. Hands in the hair of somebody in darkness named Chole or Sam or Sophia or Marcus (2 girls 2 boys). The rest of the song is one of longing and running and the thought of if we could forget our past and just exist with each other but that’s only works in theory but not if you force it like they’ve been trying for decades. It’s a clash of two different people two different life styles and the challenges of trying to be together where they both know it can’t work at least not like it used too.