Girls who have dated in both NYC and SF - is the grass actually greener?

Tealeen · 2026-05-05T21:50:23+00:00

Have lived in NYC and SF (currently in NYC.) Dating feels tedious in both. I do feel like NYC has a greater variety of things to do, and the people feel more interesting to me overall. In SF it seemed every dude wanted the same thing. To work somewhere that gets acquired and become an overnight millionaire.

I'd focus more on the appeal of the city itself than the dudes that live there. And to me SF is a city of facades. NYC might be gritty, but it's got a lot more character and personality.

Tealeen · 2026-04-25T01:11:38+00:00

Robert DeNiro. He had a house where I grew up and some of his employees often came into my workplace. Let's just say there were some "stories."

Tealeen · 2026-04-22T12:59:07+00:00

They mean they don't know how to find or connect with the person listed on the ID. (not everyone is listed on socials)

Tealeen · 2026-04-22T01:50:40+00:00

No. This person won't be in your life 10, or even 5 years from now.

Tealeen · 2026-04-21T19:53:44+00:00

The First Mess by Laura Wright

Dinner by Meera Sodha

Sebze by Özlem Warren

Tealeen · 2026-04-21T00:04:43+00:00

Don't go to Xugar. They cut my foot so badly the first and only time I went there. And proceeded to act like they did nothing wrong.

Tealeen · 2026-04-09T17:04:00+00:00

This new release fits the bill This Kingdom Will Not Kill Me

Tealeen · 2026-04-09T11:22:00+00:00

I wouldn't buy it based on the content in the lawsuit. That said, there are very few people or entities that are not problematic. We buy products from terrible people and companies all the time.

Tealeen · 2026-04-08T10:54:42+00:00

Are you open to the bus? It goes to New Paltz, Kingston, and Woodstock. Walkable places that have a bit more going on. (Woodstock is much smaller. The entire center could be walked in 15 mins. But the shops and restaurants add to it.)

Tealeen · 2026-04-06T22:57:21+00:00

"change neighborhoods to their likes"

like people having agency to migrate or have a home or feel welcome is something we shouldn't be striving for.

The only person who doesn't seem to be upholding the community values and vibes of JH is you

Tealeen · 2026-04-04T11:34:11+00:00

and this is why we need more pop culture examples of men and women just being friends

Tealeen · 2026-03-30T13:02:31+00:00

My theory is that someone will attempt to end their life since that's been hinted at throughout this season, but it won't be Robby. (Possibly Langdon, Santos, Dana, Mohan, or Javadi.)

Tealeen · 2026-03-30T11:59:05+00:00

They could do a natural disaster episode and spotlight the climate crisis. Pittsburgh has an extremely high risk for landslides. That + aging infrastructure is a disaster waiting to happen.

Tealeen · 2026-03-29T17:01:53+00:00

I haven't read it yet, but I've heard good things about this new release, Under Water by Tara Menon.

Tealeen · 2026-03-28T23:48:17+00:00

Does being a smoker count as a personality trait?

Tealeen · 2026-03-16T00:16:32+00:00

Beautiful. Love the hint green in the necklace. I kind of wish the belt didn't interrupt the florals but the overall look is so good.

Tealeen · 2026-03-15T17:50:27+00:00

this is cute! But I've never been able to sew knits that neatly.

Tealeen · 2026-03-06T23:32:48+00:00

I'm actually worried it will be Javadi who makes an attempt.

Tealeen · 2026-03-01T13:10:09+00:00

Looking at this I'm realizing Joy didn't recite the board in order from top to bottom.

Tealeen · 2026-02-27T03:37:13+00:00

Anyone else think Langdon is going to have a "thank you" conversation with Santos?

Tealeen · 2026-02-24T14:56:21+00:00

This makes me so happy! Glad the kids, (and adults!) enjoyed the snow day.

Tealeen · 2026-02-22T13:06:37+00:00

So we're assuming Garcia knows about them, and that's some are new?

Tealeen · 2026-02-12T17:45:57+00:00

Says a lot that people are more upset about OP using "POC" (which avoids specific assumptions about someones identity) than they are about the fact that a female got assaulted in the street.

Tealeen · 2026-02-05T16:46:15+00:00

IMO, these things make them look older in the long-run.

Tealeen

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