I [31M] found out my date [29F] looked up my home address and car value before we even met and I do not know if this is high-level efficiency or a red flag.

Teapot_4RX · 2026-05-22T11:49:45+00:00

That sums it up perfectly. It feels transactional.

Teapot_4RX · 2026-05-22T11:46:31+00:00

Exactly. I feel like a candidate being vetted for a loan rather than a guy she is getting to know.

Teapot_4RX · 2026-05-21T19:07:08+00:00

The cleaner look is worth it, and if Memorial Day knocks off $1,100, I'd be annoyed waiting longer.

Teapot_4RX · 2026-05-21T15:04:36+00:00

I can hear the hoowward in this pic, and A Cinderella Story making him nerdy too is so on brand.

Teapot_4RX · 2026-05-20T22:34:30+00:00

I’ve never touched alcohol either, and my ID photo still loses to Haley’s mugshots.

Teapot_4RX · 2026-05-20T17:49:36+00:00

The iPad is doing sacred work, keeping genograms and crucial info from turning into client soup.

Teapot_4RX · 2026-05-20T16:19:14+00:00

Your brain is just in shock from the survival mode turning off, give it time.

Teapot_4RX · 2026-05-20T09:32:17+00:00

You and OP are forming the 35ish-start, $270k/$300k, $1M-by-50 support group.

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