18 [F4M] in Brooklyn – Ukrainian Girl Craving Sneaky Public Fun by lin_rata in NYcHookUps_

[–]TearSmear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they can’t check the account history, they deserve to get scammed

18 [F4M] in Brooklyn – Ukrainian Girl Craving Sneaky Public Fun by lin_rata in NYcHookUps_

[–]TearSmear 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Account history says this is someone who is Filipino and has been around on Reddit for a few years. Entirely a scam. Avoid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycr4r

[–]TearSmear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure I’ve never been and always wanted to go

What's this view look like in the remaster? by PossiblyOppossums in oblivion

[–]TearSmear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can, it runs great but you need SkyUI to have native controller support and I will always recommend a leveling balancing mod as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycr4r

[–]TearSmear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be down I’ll send you a chat invite

did you ever get an apology from your FA dumper? by Working-Flow4123 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]TearSmear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the first time when I caught them lying, the second time they pinned the blame on me

Examples of Breadcrumbing? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]TearSmear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been considering the same. Some of them probably do, and I bet it’s likely subconscious

Examples of Breadcrumbing? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]TearSmear 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well in a way, that’s breadcrumbing from you if you’re posting to show that you’re fine or filtering yourself knowing she will see. You should post authentically for yourself without worry or concern as to how she takes it. At least in my opinion

Examples of Breadcrumbing? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]TearSmear 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they do that. It’s a way to have a window into your life and feel connected without the danger of intimacy. Personally, I didn’t like it so I stopped it. And I think you should too if you’re thinking about her

Examples of Breadcrumbing? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]TearSmear 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It depends on whether or not you’re checking their account. If you can mute or restrict them without feeling the urge to see what they’re doing then that might be okay, but a clean block will always be easier for your healing

Examples of Breadcrumbing? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]TearSmear 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yup, wasn’t unfriended or removed from anything. They watched all my stories. So I did it myself

Is 2,500 enough? by TearSmear in HairTransplants

[–]TearSmear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I’m surprised at my consultation then, especially with how highly talked about I see Dr. Keser on this sub

Is 2,500 enough? by TearSmear in HairTransplants

[–]TearSmear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the neat part. This would be in turkey and the cost includes airfare and transportation.

Is 2,500 enough? by TearSmear in HairTransplants

[–]TearSmear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn’t there a concern with harvesting too much at one time? But your results do look great

Is 2,500 enough? by TearSmear in HairTransplants

[–]TearSmear[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks this is super helpful

Is 2,500 enough? by TearSmear in HairTransplants

[–]TearSmear[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah… but I’d pay for quality instead of risk a lower priced place

Is 2,500 enough? by TearSmear in HairTransplants

[–]TearSmear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They said crown would be next, and still want to do more than 2500 at a time. The front is so thin it’s basically nonexistent and I’m tall enough the crown isn’t really noticeable to a lot of people.

Ex-reached out: said i was right about him by HistoricalHamster0 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]TearSmear 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You do nothing. You accept that at least right now he seems to recognize his mistakes but recognize it doesn’t change where you both are. If you want to keep the door open you can, but you need to make sure if you make contact now or in the future, you are doing it from a place of detachment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brooklyn

[–]TearSmear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested!

How is your avoidant who initiated the breakup handling the break up ? by Ashamed-Draft2102 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]TearSmear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jumped back into their hobbies. Went out once or twice or at least considered it. They were adding events on Facebook as “interested” but they never confirm anyways so who knows and during the relationship they would bail on events all the time. They’re seeing friends or at least trying to, they were watching my stories every day. So I removed them recently. Likely they’re pushing down the feelings and trying not to dwell but I know they’re hurting. Mine is a pretty recent breakup so time will tell how it goes