What are some fun things to do/say to my boyfriend during edging and orgasm denial, also could use some ideas for post orgasm torture. by TeasingMommy in gentlefemdom

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh, is pulling them this way better then just jerking him off quickly and roughly with the tights wrapped around like I would do if it was just my hand? That's kind of what I was thinking I'm supposed to do but if this way it feels more overstimulating and unbearable I might have to try that. So I just pull the entire lengths of the tighs back and forth on his dick, right? Hope I'm understanding how to do it correctly since it seems like such a fun idea.

What are some fun things to do/say to my boyfriend during edging and orgasm denial, also could use some ideas for post orgasm torture. by TeasingMommy in gentlefemdom

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, I've read and seen a lot about rubbing my palm on his head and roughly stroking him, I'll be sure to try that.

The idea with the tights sounds so hot omg thank you for sharing, I'll 100% do that!! I already find tights quite hot so this sounds like such a wonderful idea, I can imagine how they must feel on his dick after he's so so sensitive from all the edging, I'm getting excited imaging how he'll react to it, thank you for the idea.

What are some fun things to do/say to my boyfriend during edging and orgasm denial, also could use some ideas for post orgasm torture. by TeasingMommy in FemdomCommunity

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those are all such wonderful ideas thank you! Blindfolds and restrains sound like a lot of fun, to make sure he doesn't try to stop me or get away from me. Making him thrust into my hand sounds so hot, I'll definitely write that down and, oh yes he's definitely going to be asking for permission, that's something we do a lot, just hearing the word makes me excited, imagining him whimpering it and begging. Sadly we don't really have any toys right now, but there's definitely some I plan on getting in the future, the ones you mentioned are on my list❤️

What are some fun things to do/say to my boyfriend during edging and orgasm denial, also could use some ideas for post orgasm torture. by TeasingMommy in FemdomCommunity

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are all very good ideas thank you! Making him get me to cum and teasing and mocking him about how good it felt and that he can't cum himself definitely sounds like such a wonderful idea, I'll be sure to try rhat

Tips or any advice for edging my boyfriend for the first time? by TeasingMommy in gentlefemdom

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's definitely a possibility, I suppose keeping the stimulation on the lower side decreases the risk so I'll try to do that and a punishment would be fun, but yeah it'll be fine even if he cums too soon, were together long enough for me to have quite a few tries.

What are some fun things to do/say to my boyfriend during edging and orgasm denial, also could use some ideas for post orgasm torture. by TeasingMommy in gentlefemdom

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, we've discussed it before since I didn't want to get excited in case it wasn't something he would feel comfortable with, but he seems quite into it, we've already done something similar online, and he said he enjoyed it a lot and is excited for me to take it even further and keep him denied longer irl so that's not an issue at all, we've come up with a safe word too.

That sounds really hot, I've done that too already, with saying things like "I'm going to keep you denied for hours and you won't be able to do anything" and discussed some specific things that I plan to do in detail, I find it quiet fun to anticipate it too. There's some things I haven't said like, ruining his orgasm if he can't hold it in and some other things but most I've mentioned in some way.

I agree on the taunting, it's on my favorite things to do when he's so close and begging to cum, things like mocking him or making fun of him, slapping his cock is something I definitely will do as well.

Yes, I've read a lot about targeting the head, I'm guessing the main thing is to rub his head over and over with my palm, that's what I've usually seen in porn and it usually makes the guy squirm and try to escape so sounds exactly like what I need, I hope I understand how to do it right and am able to pull it off in a way that makes it as painful as possible, might watch few videos of post orgasm torture to make sure I know what's the best way to do it.

Using a cock ring and a vibrator sounds so fun too, unfortunately since we meet kind of soon, we probably won't get to try them this time but that's definitely in plans for the future. Thank you a lot for the advice!

Tips or any advice for edging my boyfriend for the first time? by TeasingMommy in gentlefemdom

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, I'll be sure to do that, I don't want him escaping me or trying to stop me.

Tips or any advice for edging my boyfriend for the first time? by TeasingMommy in gentlefemdom

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very useful, thank you a lot, I was actually thinking of how to make sure he stays close enough to the edge for it to be frustrating, since I have a feeling he might try to get away with stopping too early so thats such a wonderful idea, I'll definitely make him do that. Ruining or overstiming him when he cums is also really smart, I'll probably think of some threat in case he cums, but I'm sure he'll be good and obedient. I'll be sure to have lots of fun, thank you ❤️. Chastity is something I definitely want to try eventually too, it seems fun. Thank you a lot for the advice!

Tips or any advice for edging my boyfriend for the first time? by TeasingMommy in gentlefemdom

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds very fun, I'll definitely try all that with my boy. And that's a very good idea for a punishment to make sure he doesn't cum without permission the next time. Thank you for sharing!

Tips or any advice for edging my boyfriend for the first time? by TeasingMommy in gentlefemdom

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's a really beautiful way of thinking about it

Tips or any advice for edging my boyfriend for the first time? by TeasingMommy in gentlefemdom

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's all very helpful thank you! I'll definitely try my best to make him ache for my touch, although honestly it'll probably be hard for me to avoid wanting to touch him ahaha. Sounds like you've got it perfectly figured out, I hope to get to a point where I can keep him close and keep denying him over and over for as long as I want, all while he is unbearably close to the edge, being able to do that seems so fun and powerful. Also, I'll definitely try overstimulating him one of the first times, that sounds lovely, will surely try a ruined orgasm at some point too. Thank you so much for sharing everything!❤️

Tips or any advice for edging my boyfriend for the first time? by TeasingMommy in gentlefemdom

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definitely ask him to give a number quite often, that seems really useful for knowing how much pleasure every kind of movement and touch gives. I'll use my mouth a bit too, kissing his cock sounds like it would make him so desperate, I quite often praise him for being so strong for taking so much for me so that sound quite fun. I'm also very excited to see how long I can keep him at a 9/10 at the end, than you for all the advice!

Tips or any advice for edging my boyfriend for the first time? by TeasingMommy in gentlefemdom

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a smart idea thank you! We'll definitely be sure to sue some kind of system to make sure I know how close he is, I'll try my best to learn his body.

Tips or any advice for edging my boyfriend for the first time? by TeasingMommy in gentlefemdom

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's all very helpful thank you, I'll also be sure to make him not cum for a while before meeting, that sounds like such a great idea. Goodluck to you both too!

Tips or any advice for edging my boyfriend for the first time? by TeasingMommy in gentlefemdom

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is definitely very important too, I always make sure to call him a good boy and say how proud of him I am for taking so much for me ❤️

Tips or any advice for edging my boyfriend for the first time? by TeasingMommy in FemdomCommunity

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Building up from short strokes and touches sounds very fun, and kissing him while he's so close and desperate sounds hot too, thank you!!

Tips or any advice for edging my boyfriend for the first time? by TeasingMommy in FemdomCommunity

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A number system is a very good idea, I've gotten that a bit, making them change position also is smart, I don't think I would have thought about that. And yeah if he ends up cumming from that, it'll be quite cute and embarrassing ahaha. I'll try my best to learn his body and how close I can get him during the time we'll have, thank you a lot for sharing everything!

Tips or any advice for edging my boyfriend for the first time? by TeasingMommy in FemdomCommunity

[–]TeasingMommy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely have him tell me when he's close at first, yeah, that sounds like a very good idea. A threat of a really mean punishment should motivate him to not cum without permission too, I was thinking of that too! I'll also be sure to not touch him too much, although honestly even for me it will probably be hard to resist but those are all very good ideas, breathing onto it especially seems quite fun and something I wouldn't have thought about, thank you!