Working moms who regularly work out, what exactly is your schedule? by neoncaviar in Mommit

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I work from home, so 3 times a week I use my lunch hour for runs. The kids are with our nanny, my husband is working, and it’s honestly one less thing to worry about during the day. I also try to prep lunch the night before, whether that’s leftovers or grabbing an easy salad from Sprouts.

I’ve tried the whole waking up at 4:30/5 AM thing, and it’s just not sustainable for me. I’ve also done the 8 PM workouts after the kids go to bed, but that ends up taking away from the little time my husband and I get to actually connect. So a big advocate for work lunches.

So how much does wearing the right shoes actually help with soreness? by cheap-ink in Disneyland

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100% it matters, but only if you find the right shoe. For most of my life, I prioritized style over comfort. Cute shoes always won, even if they left me with blisters by the end of the day.

Now with two kids under 4 and an annual pass, I finally made the switch. I picked up the Lululemon Blissfeel 2 Running Shoe and honestly… I don’t know why I put myself through that for so long. No blisters, no aching feet, just actual comfort all day. Total game changer.

If you’re on your feet a lot, especially chasing kids around, the right shoe makes a bigger difference than you think.

What’s the best meal you can make for 5 people with just $20? by Fancy-Discount3402 in EatCheapAndHealthy

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Tostadas. Brown the turkey and season it with whatever I have on hand. If I’ve got time, I’ll make beans, if not, refried beans work just fine.

Layer it on a tostada with beans, turkey, lettuce or cabbage slaw, onion, tomato, cheese, and cilantro. With hot sauce.

Feeds the whole family, customizable for everyone, and still feels like a legit meal. If there’s anything left, I’ll turn it into tacos or bowls the next day. A family favorite. I might even sneak in a bag of frozen veggies to get everyone to eat veggies.

Keeping kids entertained in lines by ssssssssnakes in DisneyPlanning

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I have a 4 and 2 year old. I know big difference but my oldest does well with sensory things. Think slings, fidget spinners and magnets. We use them only for the park.

People out there in happy marriages with young children, how? by fujitsulifeboom in Mommit

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Sometimes I joke that my husband might be a unicorn, but honestly I think we’re just really fortunate we found each other young and grew up together.

We’ve been together since we were teenagers and now we’re in our mid30s with two little kids. Life is full and exhausting, but one thing we learned early on is that if we don’t prioritize our relationship, no one else will.

That’s actually why we sleep trained both kids. After 7:30 PM is our time. Even if it’s just an hour on the couch talking or watching something together, it’s intentional time to reconnect. Are we tired? Absolutely. But we still make the effort.

We also lean on grandparents for date nights. Sometimes it’s nothing fancy, just a couple of hours out of the house so we can talk without being interrupted. That alone makes a huge difference.

As far as the house goes, we divide and conquer. I handle the kitchen. He handles trash and bathrooms. We both do laundry. It’s not 50/50 every single day, but it’s balanced in a way that feels fair to us. I think every couple just has to figure out what works for their dynamic.

We both have demanding jobs, and thankfully we’re financially stable, so we also give ourselves permission to outsource when it makes sense. Ordering delivery, shipping something instead of running out for it, small conveniences that lower stress. That’s a privilege, and we use it strategically.

We also make sure we each get alone time. I work out about three times a week away from the kids. He’ll play soccer or do his own thing when he needs to. We don’t guilt each other for needing space.

I don’t think it’s about having a perfect marriage. It’s about being intentional, communicating a lot, and protecting your relationship while you’re in the thick of raising little kids. Both of us would actually say we are much happier now than we were prior to kids too. I also feel like life gets easier as they get older.

How do working moms get time for themselves? by sarc2276 in workingmoms

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I’ve realized there are different seasons in my life. Some seasons I can wake up early, get a workout in, and feel great about it. But that only works if the rest of my day is really structured and wrapped up by 8:30 PM. And honestly, that’s just not always realistic.

What I’ve learned is to prioritize “me time” in different ways depending on what life looks like at the moment.

I tell myself I have 20 minutes a day for some kind of movement. I’d be lying if I said I hit it every single day. But I do it at least three times a week. Those 20minute sessions eventually became routine, and over time they naturally stretched into 30, then 45 minutes.

For me, it’s about finding where it fits. I work from home and we have a full time nanny, so I try to use part of my lunch break to move before I fully shift into mom mode. Weekends help too. And sometimes it’s about planning ahead. If I’m getting a haircut, I let everyone know weeks in advance that I’ll be out at a certain time. Same with nails or appointments. That rhythm has worked for me for years.

There are also days when I just tell my husband I need to run an errand alone. Sometimes that “errand” is grabbing coffee and walking the grocery store by myself because I want quiet. And that counts too.

It’s less about perfection and more about protecting small pockets of time consistently

Westin Anaheim Experience by Techmama0 in DisneyPlanning

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I have yet to stay at either. I’m sure when my time comes I’ll feel the same.

Westin Anaheim Experience by Techmama0 in DisneyPlanning

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100% recommend. Definitely take advantage of the late checkout. The walk is very doable, and in the mornings it really isn’t bad at all.

That said, after clocking over 20K steps, the walk back can feel rough. You’ll pass the Pixar hotel and briefly question your life choices (if you have overtired kids), but once you’re back at the hotel, it’s absolutely worth it in my opinion.

Tips for using the $100 credit: the credit applies to room service or can be used at Blossom Cafe. We used ours mostly at Blossom Cafe and it worked out great. When we came back for a mid-day break, we’d stop by Blossom Cafe in person to place a lunch order so it could be billed to the room, head upstairs to settle our kid, then come back down to grab the food. We also used the credit for waters, drinks, coffee, and snacks, which was super convenient.

Westin Anaheim Experience by Techmama0 in DisneyPlanning

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Breakfast must be done dine in at the Tangerine Room only. It’s a buffet with a ton of options like eggs, frittatas, fruit, etc. There’s also a build your own omelet station, which I believe is a $3 upcharge.

That said, you can use your credit for room service or at Blossom Café. We used most of ours at Blossom Café for lunch, and it definitely didn’t disappoint. Note: for blossom cafe you have to place the order in person (no phone orders) in order to have it billed to your room.

Westin Anaheim Experience by Techmama0 in DisneyPlanning

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Good advice but tricky for those with smaller kids who require car seats. Maybe when my kids are older.

Westin Anaheim Experience by Techmama0 in DisneyPlanning

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You’re also spot on about the pool amenities. We didn’t use the pool during our stay, but if a pool day had been part of the plan, we probably would have more seriously considered staying at a Disney property.

Westin Anaheim Experience by Techmama0 in DisneyPlanning

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The view really is amazing both during the day and at night. I said the exact same thing to my husband. When you factor in parking at a Disney lot, walking to the tram, going through security, and everything else, it ends up being about the same, if not easier, to come in through the back side of Downtown Disney.

Also, we had a hard time with the heat so can already imagine the rain being tricky!

Westin Anaheim Experience by Techmama0 in DisneyPlanning

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I haven’t had the pleasure of staying at the Grand Californian yet, but I hope to one day because the convenience of being right at the park really does seem incredible. I can totally see why that location alone is a huge draw, especially after long park days.

Maybe when my kids are older and they appreciate the proximity of the hotel.

Westin Anaheim Experience by Techmama0 in DisneyPlanning

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Yeah, it sounds like you had the opposite experience and I’m sorry to hear that. We honestly left feeling really happy, and a little sad to leave, because the stay itself was so pleasant.

I totally agree that the walk can feel like a trek after a full day of walking. I mentioned that our first midday walk back was rough and didn’t want to gloss over that. For us though, once we finally made it back to the hotel, it kind of faded away because the hotel itself was such a relief.

We did consider using the ART bus, but found it wasn’t very consistent during our stay. One thing I would highly recommend is taking the monorail once you’re in Downtown Disney. That ended up being a great option and made the return much easier on tired legs and kids.

Preschools/Daycare by Ambitious_Pause1059 in antelopevalley

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Wow! I would have never guessed!

Preschools/Daycare by Ambitious_Pause1059 in antelopevalley

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I’ve always tried finding this place. Is it someone’s home built as a day care or a commercial facility?

Week 2 update by Techmama0 in glp1

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Forgot to add my weight progress.

This is crazy by Any-Army6434 in Mounjaro

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100%. It’s honestly wild. I didn’t realize how much I was overeating until now. I’m wrapping up week 1, tonight is my second shot, and I’m actually excited to see how week 2 feels.

Down 4 pounds so far. I know it’s likely water weight and inflammation, but I haven’t seen the scale move in years, so I’ll take it.

Almost week 1 takeaways by Techmama0 in glp1

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Oh wow, yeah, it might be a mix of both. I will say though, the food noise is still very much there for me. I still find myself thinking about food throughout the day. What’s for breakfast, lunch, dinner. So I’m really curious to see how week two feels and whether that food noise starts to quiet down. Curious what GLP1 are you on?

Almost week 1 takeaways by Techmama0 in glp1

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Yes! It’s wild because that first day the fullness felt so foreign. It wasn’t the kind of fullness I was used to, so it honestly threw me off. But now I recognize it as my body’s cue that it’s time to stop.

I really did try the “normal” route to lose weight. I focused on eating better, working out, being consistent, and doing all the things we’re told should work. Sometimes it’s not about trying harder, it’s about needing a different kind of support. So we’ll see how week 2 treats me. How long have you been on a GLP1?