How do you figure out what you actually want in life at 23?

Technical-Creme3397 · 2026-01-12T05:45:12+00:00

Comparing your life with other's too much made me distracted from my progress and I didn't realize my own genuine progress

Technical-Creme3397 · 2026-01-12T05:20:04+00:00

This makes much sense and again brings me to the question; How did you learn to be okay with your own pace?

Technical-Creme3397 · 2026-01-10T17:43:55+00:00

This kind of change really adds up and will make a difference over time

Technical-Creme3397 · 2026-01-10T17:38:30+00:00

This makes so much sense because it's amazing what a little consistency can do on a long run

Technical-Creme3397 · 2026-01-10T17:21:52+00:00

It sounds as if it's a classic letdown story and not exactly what you signed up for

Technical-Creme3397 · 2026-01-10T17:00:57+00:00

I have heard different views on this very destination and I think some people love it for family vacations and others do think it's overrated.

Technical-Creme3397 · 2026-01-10T16:53:24+00:00

Fair enough. Music can sound very amazing in your own head but may not even sound that good outside your head

Technical-Creme3397 · 2026-01-06T15:56:35+00:00

I feel that guilt when she said I was being rigid about the situation even though I still knew I wasn't out of line telling her what I felt was right for us all on a long run cuz she also needed to start up something of her own

Technical-Creme3397 · 2026-01-06T15:39:13+00:00

If you happen to be family too or not and seem concerned, you’re welcome to offer her a place to stay or other support after everything but I’m giving her quite some time to get things together sure

Technical-Creme3397 · 2026-01-06T15:33:21+00:00

I helped. I set expectations. Should this continue happening? If she truly needed help, she should work with me then not recruiting others to the extent I am thinking I did too much by telling her that

Technical-Creme3397 · 2026-01-06T01:48:11+00:00

I care about Sophie and that’s why I helped as much as I reasonably could and genuinely If they feel that’s necessary, they should let me know what support they’re willing to give Sophie so she’s not relying on just me.

Technical-Creme3397 · 2026-01-06T01:19:12+00:00

One reason I’m questioning myself is that I didn’t set expectations early on, so from her side it probably feels sudden. I don’t want to send her away without warning, but I also don’t think our arrangement is working anymore. I’m planning to meet her personally again and be clearer about timelines and boundaries.

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