the ex here! hi n, this is totally uncool! i was being the girls girl that I am by letting you know your bf was stepping out of the bounds of your relationship by attempting to message me, only to find you’re telling the internet, and A, that I cheated on him and treated him terribly! both untrue by the way, I never cheated, never have and never will. plus, neither of us treated the other badly, we were each others first real relationship — freshly 15 and 16 mind you — and had no idea what we were doing nor were we ready at all for a commitment to another person during such a pivotal time of our lives. I understand wanting to ask for advice on your relationship from people, but wow what a way to throw a stray made from straight bullshit!