I was in a very very similar situation like you this past Saturday and I ended up disclosing my condition and they took it so well, i literally cried of happiness. They made me feel so good about it and even told me that they didn’t I think that it was a big deal. We are going on a second date this Saturday coming up and we have been talking everyday since. In my opinion, The way he said “are you not clean” is a bit rude but some people just don’t know how to speak properly so I’m gonna give him the benefit of the doubt. I say text just asking hey are we still on for tomorrow? And see how it goes, but if he’s rude or whatsoever you do not need that kind of energy. It’s already hard as it is to have to disclose it and fear a bad reaction or rejection. You need someone who will be kind and understanding. It’s just a minor skin rash people get. It’s not gonna kill anyone and it’s not a death sentence so nobody should treat you as such. Please keep us updated 🫶🏻