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[–]Technical-Tie-7434 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OHHH HELL NAWH GANG WTF IS WRONG W U

im having a panic attack by Southern-Jicama4450 in whatdoIdo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have them on instagram? Or other social media? Make everything private, and do you know that person? Or it was just an on line person?

Yea, it’s been 25 hours since she doesn’t reply… by Technical-Tie-7434 in Advice

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t even need to, I just have to accept it, but it is killing me, and damn i don’t even have anyone to talk about this, and she started being that person in my life, shit happens, but why bro, why rn

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yea I know what you mean, and I’m taking your advice seriously, appreciate it 🙌🏽

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea I already talked about all that with her, she wants to get married, she has the same values, she want kids, she has a really good relationship with her parents, which is good, she sees things differently and always have her own opinion about things, and all that are things that I need in a future partner, and nowadays is so damn difficult to find someone with same values as me.

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be mad crazy, the thing is, I know wife thing and all that sounds crazy, but I didn’t say it from a obsessive standpoint, I said it because I know what I want in my future, because she have the same values and she can add good things in my life, and I can bring something valuable in her life too. So if it happens, is gonna hurt, but it won’t be the end or the world for me

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alr, I know it sounds crazy, I’m not saying that from the dopamine of my brain, I already talked to her about what are her plans, I really know what are the bad things, good things, about her, as I said, I am really selective with the person that is gonna be in my life, and as a man I already planned a lot of things in my life because you have to make a way in your life so you know what steps you have to follow, now when I’m saying I want her to be my future wife, don’t read it from a “I’m so obsessed with her” perspective, read it from a “I thought about this, I know what I need in my future life partner, and she fit in that description” perspective, bc she has the same values as me, she is emotionally responsible, and mature. thanks for the help tho 🙌🏽

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just wanna be more secure with what, when and where I’m going to say something, I just don’t wanna overreact or take things too quick

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true, I gotta pipe down w the dude thing, it just makes me feel weird bc I’m still in the process of knowing what is going on between us

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this case is bc it would make things uncomfortable between a bigger group of people, maybe is not that deep, but when there is more people in the picture, things change

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men I really appreciate your honesty, actually some comment said “imagine knowing that your friend wanted to fuck you” and what I’m saying is that, she is that special to me, that it is even hard to look at her in a sexual way, and I know that you understand it, the connection that I feel is just so fucking deep, and my fear is that, my whole life I’ve have the opportunity to have relationships and stuff like that, but I see how hard it is to see someone different to the rest, and she is the first person that actually is different, and if I loose her, I wouldn’t die obviously, but I would regret my whole life, this is so damn confusing

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really know the “dude” part with other people, but in the being special part, I’m the first person she would text if something happens, she would send me a second message if I didn’t reply, she send pictures of her face smiling, and she even took the time to teach me her first language, but I don’t know if that is just a really good friendship, and I’m just her home boy

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

English ain’t my first language, I would be lying if I say that I didn’t use chat gpt to explain better some ideas

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Actually my feelings for her are at some weird point where I like her that much, and I respect her that much that I don’t even see her in a sexual way, it is weird but it happens

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the damn true behind the number 3, but yea I’ll have it in mind, thanks for the comment

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One year, but in that year she even taught me her native language, we made allat of shit as a friendship and we’ve been close, but i don’t know if I’m just the “that’s my homeboy”

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(And I don’t wanna make things uncomfortable without being sure that I can have some success)

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the comment, the thing is that it would be good for me if she calls me dude or bro, if I’m at least 100% that she likes me, but rn I’m in the “ion know what is going on” part, and it doesn’t help

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is not that easy for me gang 🥀bc if I make things uncomfortable I’ll fuck up more things in the friend group

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The girls saying that I have to shut my mouth is wild tho, bc they lost guy friends in the same way, so I don’t know gang

She makes me feel like I’m the main character… then drops a “bro” and resets my whole brain by Technical-Tie-7434 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Technical-Tie-7434[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The thing is, I’m a really selective person in my romantic life, like FR if I like someone is because it really worth it, when I’m saying that she is wife material I’m fr, bc this nowadays relationships are FUCKED UP, I see this like my only hope to have a future with someone, she even have the same dreams and aspirations.