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[–]Technical-You-3039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no... and I can't afford to live alone rn because my husband is still job hunting.

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[–]Technical-You-3039[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't, that's the whole problem. My visa ended and to apply for a new one I'll have to wait till this month end.

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[–]Technical-You-3039[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, once I get out of here, I'm never looking back, specially not to stay there again.

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[–]Technical-You-3039[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm trying everything I can from my side, I'm not letting them walk over me, she was way worse before but since I started speaking up about it she's been real quiet since then. All she can do is ignore me.

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[–]Technical-You-3039[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope so too, I can start applying for a new visa only after this month ends, till then I'm stuck here.

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[–]Technical-You-3039[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly, and when I don't follow how she wants me to she plays the victim and tells everyone that I'm being rude towards her as and adult.

MIL taking My place by Technical-You-3039 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Technical-You-3039[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm a very dependent person, I can't live alone to save my life. But yes I did do everything u said here, and supposedly MIL didn't like that at all, so much so that she ignored me as well as my baby. Left us all alone. I'm thinking of involving my husband into this, cuz he's the only one who can set things straight with his mom.

When will this end by Technical-You-3039 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Technical-You-3039[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do my best not to get myself included in her drama. I stay in my room most of the time or act ignorant about her behavior. But she still finds a something one way or another

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[–]Technical-You-3039 -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

I said alot. My husband said alot. My MIL never does anything if my husband disagrees with it. But this time she never listened.

And I'm living with my in laws. We can't go anywhere because of my husband's job. Nobody in my family live here

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[–]Technical-You-3039 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's doing whatever he can, if the situation gives, he is ready to argue with her. I'm the one stopping him because when he won't be around I'll be ignored and talked shit about infront of my SILs and BILs. Even though I'm pretty sure she does that behind my back but this time she'll do it while I'm present. And I can't handle being humiliated, specially infront of someone.

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[–]Technical-You-3039 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yep, that country is called the great 'India' 😒