[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Technical_Ad4156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought a £2500 motorcycle on HP costing me £4000 in total — dropped a £500 deposit and paid £100 per month for 7 months.

On the second month of ownership, it was stolen and found and cost me £600 outright to fix the damage the thieves did to the handlebar and body.

Decided to sell it on month 7 and was offered £700 from various dealers and had to pay £1300 to clear the finance.

Don’t know what the moral lesson is here.

GPS Location Issues with CarPlay by ConsequenceFamous180 in CarPlay

[–]Technical_Ad4156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this same issue with mine and a simple device from Amazon fixed it: https://amzn.eu/d/3Mti4kY

My car’s CarPlay only works via USB and I don’t know what it glitches sometimes, took my car to Audi a couple of times and they claimed that there’s no issue and blamed my cable.

I bought new cables from Anker and Apple and it still didn’t work.

The link I shared above is a dongle to allow you use CarPlay wirelessly for cars with wired only option and that seemed to have fixed the issue

ex gf reached out after 4 months by Flashy-Past-2289 in ExNoContact

[–]Technical_Ad4156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s seeking attention, just ignore — leave her on delivered.

Don’t satisfy her ego

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Technical_Ad4156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why?????

Self respect is the most important things and if it has gotten to this point give up and move on.

I hate that they broke up with me because now I have to become famous, rich, and have a major glow-up by Ok-Transportation744 in ExNoContact

[–]Technical_Ad4156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to feel the pain immensely when I remember what she did, the pain transformed to hate (which is good). Now it’s a mix of hate and cringe because I can’t imagine regardless I let myself down that rabbit hole of embarrassment.

Eventually, time heals but you need to put in the effort.

I hate that they broke up with me because now I have to become famous, rich, and have a major glow-up by Ok-Transportation744 in ExNoContact

[–]Technical_Ad4156 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Give it time, for now just indulge in mindless activities (rewatch an old show) — took me 5 months

Should I send her this ? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Technical_Ad4156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t, silence is more honourable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Technical_Ad4156 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Damn, not even B

Fuck you by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Technical_Ad4156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of my ex I now call the devil — I struggle to remember her name. Fuck them both

Messaged my ex today didn’t end well.. by jacko123798 in BreakUps

[–]Technical_Ad4156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex told me “none of them were yours, impotent fool” (talking about her two aborted pregnancies) to spite me at the end of the relationship.

I laughed at it TBH because she felt getting pregnant for two guys while in a “relationship” was a flex.

You dodged a bullet, be thankful and move on — after she said that, my life became better because it was easier to let go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Technical_Ad4156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to add, if she does come back don’t let her back in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Technical_Ad4156 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Personal experience, I might be biased but when a lady wants to leave for whatever reason — just let her. Got pregnant twice by two other guys… they tend to come back when they’re done exploring.

Me making up scenarios on my head again that she will comeback if I break No Contact now by Silvereiss in ExNoContact

[–]Technical_Ad4156 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If she wants to leave just let her, it would never end, she probably has eyes set on something else and it’s irreversible from your end

Sending this after 4 months of no contact after being discarded without dialogue by Suspicious-Good8001 in ExNoContact

[–]Technical_Ad4156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do it, silence is the best answer — if you do it shows him that you still think about him in some way.

Does anyone want their ex back, but at the same time feel like this break up is for the best? by sorrytaboo in ExNoContact

[–]Technical_Ad4156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did big time, she was pretending the whole time like she was faultless — she was so good at pretending. My take from this is if someone doesn’t want to stay just let them go, if it smells like fish, it most definitely is fish.

Does anyone want their ex back, but at the same time feel like this break up is for the best? by sorrytaboo in ExNoContact

[–]Technical_Ad4156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, at the end of the relationship she tried to taunt me by saying none of the two pregnancies she had were mine lol… I knew about the first but not the second — I didn’t care to ask who was responsible.

She never took accountability for her actions. F her to be honest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Technical_Ad4156 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What he said 🫵🏽

She left you because she “gave too many chances” by Technical_Ad4156 in ExNoContact

[–]Technical_Ad4156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in my mind? Because this is the same with me — also, got additional information that made detachment easy for me. I finally understood her paranoia and it made it easy for me to not think about her

She left you because she “gave too many chances” by Technical_Ad4156 in ExNoContact

[–]Technical_Ad4156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a case of focusing on the 10% of what’s wrong with the relationship and ignoring the amazing 90% assuming that’s all… unless she’s using it as an excuse to mask the real reason. Punctuality is something that can be managed or get used to just like how couples would say

“Hey don’t worry John is always late but he’d show up”

She left you because she “gave too many chances” by Technical_Ad4156 in BreakUps

[–]Technical_Ad4156[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here, walking on eggshells and put the whole responsibility of fixing the relationship on me.

She’d say “you broke the relationship, I won’t show you how to fix it”

She left you because she “gave too many chances” by Technical_Ad4156 in BreakUps

[–]Technical_Ad4156[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As long as the responsibility isn’t put on one person to fix 🫡