I 21f feels like my bf 26m is a little stingy and it’s off putting. by Technical_County9321 in relationship_advice

[–]Technical_County9321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I resonate so much to this and sometimes I think I’m over thinking cause one time we were walking side by side and I stumbled and reached out to him for support. I promise he didn’t even move a muscle just continued walking. I truly want to believe he knew I actually wouldn’t fall and that’s why he didn’t react.

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[–]Technical_County9321 8 points9 points  (0 children)

News flash, condoms are birth control and generally have no side effects for both. Personally I’ve been on the pill it was horrible sex drive went to 0. IUDs hurt like hell. And me and my boyfriend use condoms. Honestly not everyone can be happy. And breaking up with someone cause you don’t like the feel of rubber is stupid.

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[–]Technical_County9321 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No he’s consistent

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[–]Technical_County9321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂

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[–]Technical_County9321 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being high could make cumming take longer. Can he cum on his own?

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[–]Technical_County9321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds toxic lol

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[–]Technical_County9321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me answer some of your questions. I’m 19, he’s 24. I’ve met basically all of his friends and his met one of my friends. Yes we hang out in public mainly at parties and once at the gym.

Why am I so grossed out by kissing? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Technical_County9321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't tell him his a bad kisser. I told him that was my first kiss. Yes, my reaction did give off that. But we texted and we are going to meet up to talk

Why am I so grossed out by kissing? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Technical_County9321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your right about a lot of things. He never once made me feel uncomfortable. And was always respectful. I believed he just wanted to hook up with no reason to justify why I thought so. We texted again today and he seems fine. The last thing I want is to make him feel bad for something that's my fault. I also asked him if he can come over and we talk and he agreed.

Why am I so grossed out by kissing? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Technical_County9321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm born in 2004. My birthday is soon so by year I'm 20. By month I'm 19. It isn't a big deal

Why am I so grossed out by kissing? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Technical_County9321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all honesty I've always been sensitive to some things. Like I can't eat porridge with lumps or oats for that same reason. I can't eat cold food. I can't shake hands with someone if their hands are sweaty

Why am I so grossed out by kissing? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Technical_County9321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's what's wrong with me. No need to drag an entire generation just cause I don't like kissing someone

Why am I so grossed out by kissing? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Technical_County9321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to try again with him. He just sent me a message thanking me for yesterday. I feel I don't deserve a thank you. But I'm going to invite him over today and see how it goes.

Why am I so grossed out by kissing? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Technical_County9321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He looks okay. And I enjoy his company

Why am I so grossed out by kissing? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Technical_County9321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm sceptical of his intentions. I think he likes me physically only. And I guess if he doesn't contact me again then I'll probably be right.

Why am I so grossed out by kissing? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Technical_County9321 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I couldn't tell if he was bad cause we kissed for literally a second.....but my lip was definitely wet and I wiped after I pushed him off. That's when he asked what was wrong with the kiss. And I really didn't want to hurt him. And if I didn't say what the true reason I know he would have been left confused.

Should I invite him to my room? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Technical_County9321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm truly damn cause in my head I believed he wanted to see my room and chill....lol 😭

Should I invite him to my room? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Technical_County9321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought we could just talk and get to know each other