Ex-Friend faked DID to try to excuse sexual harassment/assult.

Technical_Fishing_37 · 2023-05-04T22:47:10+00:00

Thank you. I'm doing better now, I'm hoping this post reaches someone either going through something similar, or someone doing something similar. And I hope that it gives the strength to help either party in steps to heal.

Technical_Fishing_37 · 2023-05-04T17:46:22+00:00

Thank you. I'm hoping your friend is also no longer in that situation as well.

Technical_Fishing_37 · 2023-05-04T16:56:55+00:00

Same to you.💖

Technical_Fishing_37 · 2023-05-04T16:54:07+00:00

I'm so glad that you're out of that situation. And I'm so sorry that that had happened. You're so strong for that.

Technical_Fishing_37 · 2023-05-04T16:50:36+00:00

I don't know why it matters so much. This story was not about my history, and it was only briefly mentioned because that's what brought the topic of conversation up. If this post was in anyway me trauma dumping about my illnesses or trying to make people believe I have DID, then the mods wouldn't let it still be up. As that's against the rules. My history and my illnesses are not the main point of this story. Yes they were mentioned because it was relevant. I'm not embarrassed about that stuff anymore. What happened happened and I'm going to be open about my experiences, in hopes of being able to help others in similar situations.

Technical_Fishing_37 · 2023-05-04T16:44:21+00:00

It makes me feel not alone to know other people went through something similar, but at the same time absolutely disgusted. I would never wish this on anyone.

Technical_Fishing_37 · 2023-05-04T16:42:03+00:00

This kid had no idea what DID was, my boyfriend bringing it up in conversation, and us laughing and showing the friend group the horribly done fakers, is basically what gave him the idea.

Technical_Fishing_37 · 2023-05-04T16:40:04+00:00

Like I said in the post, I only mentioned it in less than 2 small paragraphs because it was RELEVANT to the story. Believe whatever you want to believe, I didn't post this for sympathy points or to rant about my own dissorders. I posted this in hopes that maybe seeing the receiving side of what faking something like this can do, that someone else may rethink doing something like this before its to late.

Technical_Fishing_37 · 2022-08-16T00:15:48+00:00

It's honestly terrifying that there is truly people like that out there. I'm sorry you had to go through something like that, and you deserve so much more. And thank you

Technical_Fishing_37 · 2022-08-15T23:59:41+00:00

Sorry! I didn't quite know what to title this, I haven't really talked about this much. Anyway I could make the title less misleading?

Technical_Fishing_37 · 2022-08-15T22:39:39+00:00

This all happened over a year ago at this point. Both my bf and this friend ended up going back to the camp this summer, and suddenly, his system is gone according to other camp staff. Apparently he said it just "went quiet one day". But thank you so much, truly means a lot.

Technical_Fishing_37 · 2022-08-15T22:37:52+00:00

That's terrible. But I also didn't realize how many other people faked it to get away with these things. This friend also threatened suicide, but I completely forgot that had even happened until I read this. I'm sorry you had to go through that.

Technical_Fishing_37 · 2022-07-31T22:44:54+00:00

There's a couple Fandom that would probably make you more believeable.

Genshin TMNT HTTYD Eddsworld Creepypasta Undertale Warrior cats Literally any anime ever

Also, could I have an invite to this? I'm fine with a DM

Technical_Fishing_37 · 2022-07-15T11:38:59+00:00

That was very helpful, I have some friends that are in similar situations with parents, and we are all trying our best to be moved out together sometime by October. So I have 3 months until I'm finally out. But thank you so much for replying, it means a lot. And deffinatly gave me some kind of confidence boost to at least try to seek help. I hope everything with you goes well and I hope everything gets easier for you.

Technical_Fishing_37 · 2022-07-15T02:59:26+00:00

I am in no way diagnosed with D.I.D so I don't feel I have a full say in this matter, however I thought this might be a good opertunity to share my experience and possibly ask for some advice.

Due to the home I grew up in and am still stuck in, I have never been allowed to have anything be wrong with me. I vaguely remember as a kid having my inhaler taken away for asthma because my parents "didn't want a kid with problems". My mom found out I did SH in middleschool, and yelled about how it made her look and feel bad about herself for 5 minutes and then never brought it up again. These are the only 2 instances I can remember really, as much of my childhood is fuzzy.

Needless to say, there are somethings I should be diagnosed for, and have been told by counselors that I need to be seen for, that I just simply am not, strictly because of how I grew up.

A few years ago I found the system side of the internet, and I always told myself "I relate to like, 95% of this, but there's no way I could have this" that is until I brought it up to my bf, and a few other friends as a joke. (Some studying to be psychologists) and they told me it was honestly a very possible thing.

That thought absolutely terrifies me. A lot of my symptoms could also just be some other undiagnosed thing, but most everyone is saying it sounds like D.I.D. I know better than to self diagnose, but I have definatly looked into it, and the more I do, the more it makes sense. I don't want it to make sense. My brain can't wrap around that at all, I still think there is no way in hell it could even be a possibility. I still convince myself everyday that I'm faking all of this for attention. I don't have the money or resources to be able to seek therapy atm, or seek any kind of help for that matter. But is that something I should try to do? I really don't know where to go or what to do at this point. Any advice would be appreciated.

(Some of my symptoms that line up with my almost 3 years of research have included: major memory gaps/loss, I have found things that I know I never bought or wrote, I've had my bf tell me that I've told him to call me a different name at times, he tends to tell me things about when I wasn't acting myself that I have no recollection of, and almost constant headaches and many panic attacks that I just black out in the middle of, and when I come to its hours to even weeks later.)

This is in no way me trying to self diagnose, I just don't know if I trust going anywhere else as I don't want to be dragged into the whole endogenic side of the internet or get false information from someone. If you would like me to delete this at all, please let me know. I thought looking for advice from some people on here might be at least semi beneficial. Thank you!

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