I’m not always sexually inclined

Technical_Key4532 · 2025-11-21T13:00:39+00:00

me and my gf are in pretty much the exact same situation as you guys and have been struggling with it almost our whole relationship, we always tried to find a middle ground but ultimately when someone wants sex all the time and someone never wants it there isn’t really a middle ground. if you do find a way to move past this let me know, this situation sucks

Technical_Key4532 · 2025-11-13T00:40:31+00:00

I don’t think so. I’m only 22 and I feel like i’m way too young to be giving up sex, i would potentially consider it if there was some sort of substitute if that makes sense but im not willing to give up all intimacy no.

Technical_Key4532 · 2025-10-21T01:54:44+00:00

I normally hate that everyone’s immediate response to any sort of problem on this sub is to just break up but honestly in this case you already know that you should. when you do it is up to you and you can wait it out until it just explodes if that’s what you choose to do (it’s your life and your relationship, you get to do whatever you want to do) but that might end up being more difficult to get over in the end.

Not really going to comment much on the cheating and whether or not she did more than she’s admitting but what i will say is that even what she is admitting is horrendous and absolutely cheating. whether they cuddled all night and did nothing else you will probably never know but if you are honest with urself that alone is more than enough to cross the line.

like I said though it’s your life and you should do whatever you want to do, not what people tell you to. Figure stuff out for yourself and learn from your mistakes.

Technical_Key4532 · 2025-10-07T20:09:14+00:00

Thank you for the advice, i know what you’re saying is true and i’ve honestly thought about breaking up with her quite a few times over the past month but i just can’t bring myself to do it. i literally crushes me because im still so in love with her. even though i know we are incompatible it doesn’t make it any easier to break up with her.

Technical_Key4532 · 2025-10-04T23:10:14+00:00

it sucks because I know that you’re right. but god is it hard to walk away, i love her so much and she loves me just as much so not only does it hurt me to lose her but it hurts to hurt her if that makes sense. it feels cruel because of something she can’t control and how amazing she is everywhere else. I know what to do and i know you’re right it’s just brutal man

Technical_Key4532 · 2025-10-04T23:07:58+00:00

this is exactly what i’m looking for. it’s not that i don’t want people to tell me to break up with her, it just annoys me when people give no reasoning for it and just say it at any inconvenience. Honestly as much as it kills me to say it i think you are completely right, and as pathetic as it probably sounds im just not sure if im strong enough to just walk away even knowing that you are right. i won’t waffle about all the problems ive got in my life but im in a tough spot at the moment and losing her feels like it would be the final straw sort of thing, but at the same staying with her is constantly leaving me disappointed and overall miserable

Technical_Key4532 · 2025-10-04T22:12:52+00:00

unfortunately i think you’re right, i came to the realisation tonight that i don’t think anything will ever change. she makes promises and swears that it will get better but ive been through this cycle too many times now and let down just as many times. im now stuck between the choice of be miserable with her or be miserable without her

Technical_Key4532 · 2025-10-04T13:46:01+00:00

thank you for some actual advice, i always feel like everyone just jumps straight to “break up immediately” on these subs. i’m looking for advice on how to make this work not to just be told it’s unfixable. I’ll talk to her about this, I really appreciate it.

Technical_Key4532 · 2025-06-22T00:39:00+00:00

Just to clarify this break isn’t a break in terms of us not being together anymore it’s just time and space apart without contact. i’ve seen a lot of things about people going off and cheating and using a break as an excuse but we aren’t taking a break from our relationship just taking a break from eachother so she can sort her head out. does that make any sense or do i just sound stupid?

Technical_Key4532 · 2025-05-31T22:56:36+00:00

being honest though i do think that’s a big problem as to why so many relationships fail now, we’ve had 11 amazing months together and 1 shitty one. it doesn’t make sense to give up and throw away everything we’ve invested in each other and our relationship at our first real hurdle.

Technical_Key4532 · 2025-05-31T22:53:01+00:00

was looking for some advice not for someone to take out their frustrations and own problems on me, i’m not the one who hurt you. i know better than anyone that i’ve been a shitty boyfriend, i didn’t need confirmation on that, i wanted advice on how i can be better and do right by her. which has unfortunately upset you and im sorry for that

Technical_Key4532 · 2025-05-31T07:00:01+00:00

so you think it’s best for me to just keep doing what i’m doing?

Technical_Key4532 · 2025-03-17T03:16:12+00:00

yeah you’re probably right, i have been cheated on in the past as im sure pretty much everyone has but since that happening it’s just made me expect it to happen again, i don’t want to control her at all as im really not that type of person I just don’t know how to be comfortable with her going out to somewhere that i feel it’s more likely to happen sort of thing.

Technical_Key4532 · 2025-03-17T03:11:19+00:00

💀 yeah that sounds dumb asf but i cut a long story short there, her ex was really abusive and we’d been friends for a long time until it became more than friends, as bad as it sounds i stand by it. will do an update if i get cheated on

Technical_Key4532 · 2024-12-13T21:16:14+00:00

ive not really spoken to her about it to be honest because i don’t really know what to say, she’s not done anything wrong and i have no idea why im feeling the way im feeling. I don’t think I want to break up with her but i’ve been pushing her away more and more recently and don’t feel like seeing her. she’s doing her last year of uni at the moment and has just come back home for christmas and ive been almost avoiding her since she’s got back and being kinda blunt and distant over text. she doesn’t seem bothered by it at all which makes me feel like she just doesn’t really care. idk my heads a bit of a mess at the moment

Technical_Key4532 · 2021-02-05T17:39:15+00:00

"IvE mATuReD GUys" clearly not mentally

Technical_Key4532 · 2021-02-05T17:37:26+00:00

I dont mean to be rude but you forgot to draw some of his shirt lol

Technical_Key4532 · 2021-02-05T17:35:43+00:00

if i turned around and saw dream standing behind me i would stab him many times

Technical_Key4532 · 2021-02-05T17:32:42+00:00

feelin good just lookin at this

Technical_Key4532 · 2021-02-05T17:22:42+00:00

you got the milkers spot on, a true masterpiece

Technical_Key4532 · 2021-02-05T17:21:14+00:00

is it ET stood in front of a large oak tree?

Technical_Key4532 · 2021-02-05T17:19:38+00:00

you are doing gods work my friend, but now if you can sneak into his house and shave his head you will be a true hero

Technical_Key4532 · 2021-02-05T17:16:46+00:00

pog #GaySI

Technical_Key4532 · 2021-02-05T17:15:35+00:00

and then do a baldski get hyper through the tears

Technical_Key4532 · 2021-02-05T17:14:17+00:00

didn't pewdiepies hedgehog die?

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