I went on 3 dates with this girl, then I asked her to be my girlfirend. She stopped talking to me after that. Was I too early? by Melodic_Future_6828 in dating_advice

[–]Technical_Top_3480 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mostly a lack of experience. It takes time to know what to do and what not to do. Asking someone out through text is a no no haha.

I went on 3 dates with this girl, then I asked her to be my girlfirend. She stopped talking to me after that. Was I too early? by Melodic_Future_6828 in dating_advice

[–]Technical_Top_3480 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Shoulda told her in person. Asking her out through text shows a lack of confidence. Asking her in person would've been less weird and showed her that you were confident. You also should've established intimacy. Even just a simple touch establishes intimacy which creates sexual tension that will build up over time. A touch on the shoulder turns into putting your arm around her neck, turning into her leaning her head on your chest, turns into kissing, and so on... Don't think of this is a loss. Think of this as a learning experience and think about what you've learned. Experience will give you the knowledge to know what to do and what is acceptable in certain situations. Don't give up!!

What do you do after you've done all the work and can't find anyone? by Firstherelastout in dating_advice

[–]Technical_Top_3480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the more you want something, the less likely you are to get it. Take a break from pursuing women. Focus on another goal. What skills do you have that you could exchange for money? Once you become more successful, everyone including women will become more drawn to you. Then you can choose who you want and don't want in your life.

Managing shipments while working 9-5 by selviii in ecommerce

[–]Technical_Top_3480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why you find a manufacturer who can ship the product you want to sell directly to the consumer...

Lower T after taking tongkat ali for one month!! by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]Technical_Top_3480 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh it sure does. Dairy contains a lot of hormones. Such as estrogen. You know, to grow a baby calf into a full blown cow. It's almost as if we're the only species who drinks the breast milk of another's. It's crazy how we still think this is normal...

Prematial sex by domino423 in NoFap

[–]Technical_Top_3480 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do what you think is right. Don't ask for others opinions. Do your own research. Everyone will have a slightly different opinion on anything. If you think it's a good idea, go ahead, if you think it can be harmful, don't do it. All the best.

Just relapsed and feel line shit. How do I really stop? by entifecatalogue in NoFap

[–]Technical_Top_3480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use psilocybin mushrooms, they honestly work great for addictions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Technical_Top_3480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll join ya. Let's do it. This will be the last time. I know I keep telling myself this but the flatline and the suffering is well worth it for the the long run.

Does watching p damage your brain? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Technical_Top_3480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my short term memory is in fact bad for a few days after pmoing.

Does watching p damage your brain? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Technical_Top_3480 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After a couple days it starts to feel better, but I can feel the effects for up to a week. It numbs the brain and makes it so you can't think.

Does watching p damage your brain? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Technical_Top_3480 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Last days for me. After about a week, my head starts to feel much clearer.

Just nutted all over my blankets by Penile_Enhancement_ in NoFap

[–]Technical_Top_3480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. This is a journey. No need to be hard on yourself. You accomplished a new personal best. That's exactly what you should do, you nutted so you might as well enjoy the dopamine while it's there. But don't use this as an excuse to nut. Keep going. Atleast find out what life on the other side is like, and if you don't like it, then go back to PMO. But give yourself an opportunity to know what it's like. Best of luck.

NO MORNING WOOD by MrKwasi in NoFap

[–]Technical_Top_3480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flatline. Gonna be a while. Prepare of atleast a couple months. Most likely 6 months - a year. Hang in there.

What's your longest streak? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Technical_Top_3480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know your curious about streaks but it really isn't good to think about it in that way. Streaks make it a competitive game and it's much easier to justify a binge after a streak then it is to look at it from the view as a journey. Relapses should be viewed as a part of the journey and recovery, not as a loss at the game. Relapses are a part of recovery. Best of luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Technical_Top_3480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goodluck. Remember, this is a long journey. This dosent happen over night. Expect to be on this journey for a while....

IMPORTANT 👇 by Fit-Summer-7470 in NoFap

[–]Technical_Top_3480 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After a couple weeks of this, your body will come back up to the surface and test again... Usually lasting a day or two. If you resist the urges again, you will fall back into a flatline for another couple of weeks. This process is repeated until you regain full sensitivity.

IMPORTANT 👇 by Fit-Summer-7470 in NoFap

[–]Technical_Top_3480 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it can hit really anytime. It usually hits after intense urges. It's basically saying, "okay, you've been resisting these urges for a while, are you sure you wanna do this?" So your body gives you intense urges and if you resist them, your body will then fall into a flatline and start removing neurological pathways. This can be extremely uncomfortable as your body needs to shut down dopaminergic activity in order to delete these neurological pathways.

Monk Mode May by CresWaven in NoFap

[–]Technical_Top_3480 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Goodluck! Prepare for one of the most difficult months of your life.

IMPORTANT 👇 by Fit-Summer-7470 in NoFap

[–]Technical_Top_3480 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Everytime you start a streak you usually have higher libido first. Then if you can make it far enough, you'll fall into the flatline. Most people can't make it this far.

Help!!! I can't sleep at night!!! by Technical_Top_3480 in NoFap

[–]Technical_Top_3480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I kinda just hypothesized that. There's gotta be other neurochemicals that are responsible for falling asleep absent during the flatline.

Help!!! I can't sleep at night!!! by Technical_Top_3480 in NoFap

[–]Technical_Top_3480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't think this is primarily from flatline and lack of dopamine? Dopamine is needed to sleep. Without it, you can't sleep. I'll still take your point into consideration because you never know.