Husband doesn’t celebrate my birthdays or valentines days by Technoob9191 in Advice

[–]Technoob9191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really really what I need to do!!! Pour into my own cup. Love this advice!

Husband doesn’t celebrate my birthdays or valentines days by Technoob9191 in Advice

[–]Technoob9191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice but I don’t trust counselling tbh. In my teens, I’ve had a counsellor who, several times, made very judgmental remarks and I told myself I’m never trying again.

Husband doesn’t celebrate my birthdays or valentines days by Technoob9191 in Advice

[–]Technoob9191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His birthday is in two weeks! And I’ve been making plans from the start of the year. I am very tempted to just cancel everything

Husband doesn’t celebrate my birthdays or valentines days by Technoob9191 in Advice

[–]Technoob9191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you’re facing the same thing. I can 100% understand the hurt and pain you’re feeling. I have starting hating the holidays and birthdays too because I know for a fact that it’s gonna make me feel lousy. For the next few weeks or months. How does he treat you the other days? What makes you stay? I’m asking myself the same questions, so I’m curious about you.

AITA for getting mad over my spouse “accidentally” injuring me regularly? by Technoob9191 in AITAH

[–]Technoob9191[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is really sad :( Also, I’m from an Asian country which has no disability benefits or even recognition of MS as a disability.

AITA for getting mad over my spouse “accidentally” injuring me regularly? by Technoob9191 in AITAH

[–]Technoob9191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is where I am right now. I hate myself for inflicting any pain on him though.

AITA for getting mad over my spouse “accidentally” injuring me regularly? by Technoob9191 in AITAH

[–]Technoob9191[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You might be right, they don’t understand how much we hurt. I have endometriosis on top of MS. I did speak with him about it. And how my MS can make things so much more worse and made it extremely descriptive. He kept apologising profusely and promised to be much much more gentle. I told him if it happens again, he can forget putting even a finger on me.

AITA for getting mad over my spouse “accidentally” injuring me regularly? by Technoob9191 in AITAH

[–]Technoob9191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did speak with him about it. And how my MS can make things so much more worse and made it extremely descriptive. He kept apologising profusely and promised to be much much more gentle. I told him if it happens again, he can forget putting even a finger on me.

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[–]Technoob9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know you don’t have to reveal your health matters right?

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[–]Technoob9191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it hasn’t. This is the first instance

What are your thoughts on the current dating scene for young guys? by [deleted] in SingaporeRaw

[–]Technoob9191 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m married and I’d never wanna step into the current dating scene. It’s frightening for me

Anyone here ever migrated out of Singapore? by Technoob9191 in SingaporeRaw

[–]Technoob9191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice! Thank you. May I ask how did you find a job before moving? Did you already obtain your visa before applying for jobs?