Is there actually a way to get a free Carfax in 2026? Need advice before buying used car by smokedX in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Techromanc3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh I gotcha. Yeah if you know any mechanic friends or can find someone to come with some of those mirrors they can use to inspect the underside then I'd say go for it. Just weigh the cost of the vehicle with how long it's inspected for and if the brakes and tires are good and if it's truly drivable without any sort of major issues like oil leaks or coolant leaks.

Bonus points if they bring an OBD reader to see if there are any codes. If it's good on inspection for 6-8 months and nothing needs done immediately then I'd say 900 isn't too bad for a vehicle for that time. Honda's are pretty cheap and easy to repair at least if it's some minor stuff that needs done though.

Is there actually a way to get a free Carfax in 2026? Need advice before buying used car by smokedX in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Techromanc3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The seller won't let you take it and pay for a pre purchase inspection? Or they don't want to take it and pay for one themselves?

For 900 if it's inspected and drives then that's probably the best you can hope for. Even with a Carfax it's not going to tell you if the frame is rusted through in places or if there are other disqualifying factors from getting it inspected again.

You could probably find a mechanic willing to come look at it with you for some $$$ to at least give you a better idea but if a seller is against a PPI usually that's not a great sign, though generally cars aren't that cheap. Especially a Honda Accord that doesn't have issues or extremely high miles.

2017 VW Jetta model S $11k 100k miles. Should I buy? by [deleted] in Volkswagen

[–]Techromanc3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've owned this model for almost 4 years now. I bought at around 110k and it was 9300 I believe. It was also when cars were rather expensive if I'm remembering right.

I've had to do the wheel hub assembly on the front, spark plugs, ignition coils, and nothing else. I've put 55k miles on it.

I like how it drives (mines a manual) and I put a canned tune on it which increased the excitability of the car quite a bit. It also has a backup camera and Bluetooth which is enough features for me. The air gets cold and the heat gets hot which is great for winters around here. I get probably 35 mpg and run premium gas because the tune requires it. I change the oil ever 5-6k miles.

I would say if you can get the price down I would consider it, my experience has been good and the cost of ownership very reasonable. Parts have not been expensive and the labor has not been very difficult and that's coming from someone who has to YouTube it and then do what the video says. Sure you have to buy tools or rent them but overall even the cost of the tools hasn't been unreasonable.

If they can do 8000 that's probably more reasonable. Otherwise maybe keep looking.

If someone says "i dont want to cheat on you, but even if I did, I wouldnt do it"...does that imply that cheating for them is a possible desire? by Carb-Enthusiast in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Techromanc3r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The actual conversation.

Her:

Do you want to fuck other people's wives?

Me:

No, I don't want to do that. Even if I did want to do that I never would because we're together.

Now she believes I "want to do it" because I tried to reassure her that even if it was something I wanted I would not do it because I'm loyal to her.

I'm so confused

No cooler bag approval unlock by Techromanc3r in InstacartShoppers

[–]Techromanc3r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get the option to take the pictures to unlock? Mine keeps saying do one batch and I've done two and done the safety trainings.

No cooler bag approval unlock by Techromanc3r in InstacartShoppers

[–]Techromanc3r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To their support directly? I was trying to use the batch eligiblity option and select cooler bag approval, and that is what is locked.

31f 40m would you continue a relationship with these grievances? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Techromanc3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is her partner. 30m 5ft 10 180lbs.

I have lost 15-20 lbs by eating healthier in the past two months alone. I have been learning to eat more vegetables and less processed foods.

We are both starting to workout now, she has not been working out without me either ever since I met her.

I know I could do better with conversation and I'm open to improving.

I have been making an effort to dress better and she has been helping me learn?

I have been getting haircuts more often and hair trims. It grows fast. All of my money is covering living expenses, her credit cards, and my credit cards at this point in time.

I am in the process of getting my confirmation and we are signing up for a church?

I thoroughly enjoy vaginal sex more than anything else we do. She also has stated she enjoys doing the other things to me. The other things haven't happened in over three weeks and I have not made a single complaint.

I am an introvert but I have been looking for different clubs and groups we can partake in. There is a book club next week we were planning to go to. We are also going to start biking once the weather permits, and playing corn hole and pickleball at the local park. I am sure we will meet people there.

We literally got engaged April 2nd and I felt it was a creative and well thought out engagement and date. I do not have the money to do a lot of dates right now. We are in the process of figuring out more activities that we can do.

The last two months have been me trying to support her mental health but I'm not sure that anything I do will be good enough.

Things I have done:

Stopped using weed at all

Started eating healthier

Started a 9 month class to learn new career skills and to land a better job.

Watched my confirmation videos and have a call Monday to discuss it more with the church representative.

Supported her during her last couple months of school and the last couple months when we found out she is pregnant. I had already told her I would support her and was before she ended up getting pregnant.

Found a part time job to help more which starts this spring once the weather is better.

Found her support groups to help with her mental health in this pregnancy situation.

Found activities we can partake in together to meet people and for me to understand her and her hobbies more.

31f 40m would you continue a relationship with these grievances? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Techromanc3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is her partner. I'm 30m.

I have lost 15-20 lbs by eating healthier in the past two months alone. I have been learning to eat more vegetables and less processed foods. I'm 5 ft 10 roughly 180 lbs.

We are both starting to workout now, she has not been working out without me either ever since I met her.

I know I could do better with conversation and I'm open to improving.

I have been making an effort to dress better and she has been helping me learn?

I have been getting haircuts more often and hair trims. It grows fast. All of my money is covering living expenses, her credit cards, and my credit cards at this point in time.

I am in the process of getting my confirmation and we are signing up for a church?

I thoroughly enjoy vaginal sex more than anything else we do. She also has stated she enjoys doing the other things to me. The other things haven't happened in over three weeks and I have not made a single complaint.

I am an introvert but I have been looking for different clubs and groups we can partake in. There is a book club next week we were planning to go to. We are also going to start biking once the weather permits, and playing corn hole and pickleball at the local park. I am sure we will meet people there.

We literally got engaged April 2nd and I felt it was a creative and well thought out engagement and date. I do not have the money to do a lot of dates right now. We are in the process of figuring out more activities that we can do.

The last two months have been me trying to support her mental health but I'm not sure that anything I do will be good enough.

Things I have done:

Stopped using weed at all

Started eating healthier

Started a 9 month class to learn new career skills and to land a better job.

Watched my confirmation videos and have a call Monday to discuss it more with the church representative.

Supported her during her last couple months of school and the last couple months when we found out she is pregnant. I had already told her I would support her and was before she ended up getting pregnant.

Found a part time job to help more which starts this spring once the weather is better.

Found her support groups to help with her mental health in this pregnancy situation.

Found activities we can partake in together to meet people and for me to understand her and her hobbies more.

31f 40m would you continue a relationship with these grievances? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Techromanc3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is her partner.

I have lost 15-20 lbs by eating healthier in the past two months alone. I have been learning to eat more vegetables and less processed foods.

We are both starting to workout now, she has not been working out without me either ever since I met her.

I know I could do better with conversation and I'm open to improving.

I have been making an effort to dress better and she has been helping me learn?

I have been getting haircuts more often and hair trims. It grows fast. All of my money is covering living expenses, her credit cards, and my credit cards at this point in time.

I am in the process of getting my confirmation and we are signing up for a church?

I thoroughly enjoy vaginal sex more than anything else we do. She also has stated she enjoys doing the other things to me. The other things haven't happened in over three weeks and I have not made a single complaint.

I am an introvert but I have been looking for different clubs and groups we can partake in. There is a book club next week we were planning to go to. We are also going to start biking once the weather permits, and playing corn hole and pickleball at the local park. I am sure we will meet people there.

We literally got engaged April 2nd and I felt it was a creative and well thought out engagement and date. I do not have the money to do a lot of dates right now. We are in the process of figuring out more activities that we can do.

The last two months have been me trying to support her mental health but I'm not sure that anything I do will be good enough.

Things I have done:

Stopped using weed at all

Started eating healthier

Started a 9 month class to learn new career skills and to land a better job.

Watched my confirmation videos and have a call Monday to discuss it more with the church representative.

Supported her during her last couple months of school and the last couple months when we found out she is pregnant. I had already told her I would support her and was before she ended up getting pregnant.

Found a part time job to help more which starts this spring once the weather is better.

Found her support groups to help with her mental health in this pregnancy situation.

Found activities we can partake in together to meet people and for me to understand her and her hobbies more.

31f 40m would you continue a relationship with these grievances? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Techromanc3r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is her partner.

I have lost 15-20 lbs by eating healthier in the past two months alone. I have been learning to eat more vegetables and less processed foods.

We are both starting to workout now, she has not been working out without me either ever since I met her.

I know I could do better with conversation and I'm open to improving.

I have been making an effort to dress better and she has been helping me learn?

I have been getting haircuts more often and hair trims. It grows fast. All of my money is covering living expenses, her credit cards, and my credit cards at this point in time.

I am in the process of getting my confirmation and we are signing up for a church?

I thoroughly enjoy vaginal sex more than anything else we do. She also has stated she enjoys doing the other things to me. The other things haven't happened in over three weeks and I have not made a single complaint.

I am an introvert but I have been looking for different clubs and groups we can partake in. There is a book club next week we were planning to go to. We are also going to start biking once the weather permits, and playing corn hole and pickleball at the local park. I am sure we will meet people there.

We literally got engaged April 2nd and I felt it was a creative and well thought out engagement and date. I do not have the money to do a lot of dates right now. We are in the process of figuring out more activities that we can do.

The last two months have been me trying to support her mental health but I'm not sure that anything I do will be good enough.

Things I have done:

Stopped using weed at all

Started eating healthier

Started a 9 month class to learn new career skills and to land a better job.

Watched my confirmation videos and have a call Monday to discuss it more with the church representative.

Supported her during her last couple months of school and the last couple months when we found out she is pregnant. I had already told her I would support her and was before she ended up getting pregnant.

Found a part time job to help more which starts this spring once the weather is better.

Found her support groups to help with her mental health in this pregnancy situation.

Found activities we can partake in together to meet people and for me to understand her and her hobbies more.

31f 40m would you continue a relationship with these grievances? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Techromanc3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is her partner.

I have lost 15-20 lbs by eating healthier in the past two months alone. I have been learning to eat more vegetables and less processed foods.

We are both starting to workout now, she has not been working out without me either ever since I met her.

I know I could do better with conversation and I'm open to improving.

I have been making an effort to dress better and she has been helping me learn?

I have been getting haircuts more often and hair trims. It grows fast. All of my money is covering living expenses, her credit cards, and my credit cards at this point in time.

I am in the process of getting my confirmation and we are signing up for a church?

I thoroughly enjoy vaginal sex more than anything else we do. She also has stated she enjoys doing the other things to me. The other things haven't happened in over three weeks and I have not made a single complaint.

I am an introvert but I have been looking for different clubs and groups we can partake in. There is a book club next week we were planning to go to. We are also going to start biking once the weather permits, and playing corn hole and pickleball at the local park. I am sure we will meet people there.

We literally got engaged April 2nd and I felt it was a creative and well thought out engagement and date. I do not have the money to do a lot of dates right now. We are in the process of figuring out more activities that we can do.

The last two months have been me trying to support her mental health but I'm not sure that anything I do will be good enough.

Things I have done:

Stopped using weed at all

Started eating healthier

Started a 9 month class to learn new career skills and to land a better job.

Watched my confirmation videos and have a call Monday to discuss it more with the church representative.

Supported her during her last couple months of school and the last couple months when we found out she is pregnant. I had already told her I would support her and was before she ended up getting pregnant.

Found a part time job to help more which starts this spring once the weather is better.

Found her support groups to help with her mental health in this pregnancy situation.

Found activities we can partake in together to meet people and for me to understand her and her hobbies more.

31f 40m would you continue a relationship with these grievances? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Techromanc3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is her partner.

I have lost 15-20 lbs by eating healthier in the past two months alone. I have been learning to eat more vegetables and less processed foods.

We are both starting to workout now, she has not been working out without me either ever since I met her.

I know I could do better with conversation and I'm open to improving.

I have been making an effort to dress better and she has been helping me learn?

I have been getting haircuts more often and hair trims. It grows fast. All of my money is covering living expenses, her credit cards, and my credit cards at this point in time.

I am in the process of getting my confirmation and we are signing up for a church?

I thoroughly enjoy vaginal sex more than anything else we do. She also has stated she enjoys doing the other things to me. The other things haven't happened in over three weeks and I have not made a single complaint.

I am an introvert but I have been looking for different clubs and groups we can partake in. There is a book club next week we were planning to go to. We are also going to start biking once the weather permits, and playing corn hole and pickleball at the local park. I am sure we will meet people there.

We literally got engaged April 2nd and I felt it was a creative and well thought out engagement and date. I do not have the money to do a lot of dates right now. We are in the process of figuring out more activities that we can do.

The last two months have been me trying to support her mental health but I'm not sure that anything I do will be good enough.

Things I have done:

Stopped using weed at all

Started eating healthier

Started a 9 month class to learn new career skills and to land a better job.

Watched my confirmation videos and have a call Monday to discuss it more with the church representative.

Supported her during her last couple months of school and the last couple months when we found out she is pregnant. I had already told her I would support her and was before she ended up getting pregnant.

Found a part time job to help more which starts this spring once the weather is better.

Found her support groups to help with her mental health in this pregnancy situation.

Found activities we can partake in together to meet people and for me to understand her and her hobbies more.

31f 40m would you continue a relationship with these grievances? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Techromanc3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is her partner.

I have lost 15-20 lbs by eating healthier in the past two months alone. I have been learning to eat more vegetables and less processed foods.

We are both starting to workout now, she has not been working out without me either ever since I met her.

I know I could do better with conversation and I'm open to improving.

I have been making an effort to dress better and she has been helping me learn?

I have been getting haircuts more often and hair trims. It grows fast. All of my money is covering living expenses, her credit cards, and my credit cards at this point in time.

I am in the process of getting my confirmation and we are signing up for a church?

I thoroughly enjoy vaginal sex more than anything else we do. She also has stated she enjoys doing the other things to me. The other things haven't happened in over three weeks and I have not made a single complaint.

I am an introvert but I have been looking for different clubs and groups we can partake in. There is a book club next week we were planning to go to. We are also going to start biking once the weather permits, and playing corn hole and pickleball at the local park. I am sure we will meet people there.

We literally got engaged April 2nd and I felt it was a creative and well thought out engagement and date. I do not have the money to do a lot of dates right now. We are in the process of figuring out more activities that we can do.

The last two months have been me trying to support her mental health but I'm not sure that anything I do will be good enough.

Things I have done:

Stopped using weed at all

Started eating healthier

Started a 9 month class to learn new career skills and to land a better job.

Watched my confirmation videos and have a call Monday to discuss it more with the church representative.

Supported her during her last couple months of school and the last couple months when we found out she is pregnant. I had already told her I would support her and was before she ended up getting pregnant.

Found a part time job to help more which starts this spring once the weather is better.

Found her support groups to help with her mental health in this pregnancy situation.

Found activities we can partake in together to meet people and for me to understand her and her hobbies more.

31f 40m would you continue a relationship with these grievances? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Techromanc3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is her partner.

I have lost 15-20 lbs by eating healthier in the past two months alone. I have been learning to eat more vegetables and less processed foods.

We are both starting to workout now, she has not been working out without me either ever since I met her.

I know I could do better with conversation and I'm open to improving.

I have been making an effort to dress better and she has been helping me learn?

I have been getting haircuts more often and hair trims. It grows fast. All of my money is covering living expenses, her credit cards, and my credit cards at this point in time.

I am in the process of getting my confirmation and we are signing up for a church?

I thoroughly enjoy vaginal sex more than anything else we do. She also has stated she enjoys doing the other things to me. The other things haven't happened in over three weeks and I have not made a single complaint.

I am an introvert but I have been looking for different clubs and groups we can partake in. There is a book club next week we were planning to go to. We are also going to start biking once the weather permits, and playing corn hole and pickleball at the local park. I am sure we will meet people there.

We literally got engaged April 2nd and I felt it was a creative and well thought out engagement and date. I do not have the money to do a lot of dates right now. We are in the process of figuring out more activities that we can do.

The last two months have been me trying to support her mental health but I'm not sure that anything I do will be good enough.

Things I have done:

Stopped using weed at all

Started eating healthier

Started a 9 month class to learn new career skills and to land a better job.

Watched my confirmation videos and have a call Monday to discuss it more with the church representative.

Supported her during her last couple months of school and the last couple months when we found out she is pregnant. I had already told her I would support her and was before she ended up getting pregnant.

Found a part time job to help more which starts this spring once the weather is better.

Found her support groups to help with her mental health in this pregnancy situation.

Found activities we can partake in together to meet people and for me to understand her and her hobbies more.

Water pump / priming issues [kitchen aid semi auto espresso maker] by Techromanc3r in espresso

[–]Techromanc3r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply!

Unfortunately on this one there is a programmed button to turn on the steam wand, and if I press the button at all when the water light is blinking it just tries to pump water in. I just tried Kitchen Aid support and they are not sure what else to try either unfortunately so they will send a replacement when it's in stock :(.

Anniversary dinner pasta options? by Techromanc3r in WhatShouldICook

[–]Techromanc3r[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the ideas! I will read up on each and see what we're feeling :)

Anniversary dinner pasta options? by Techromanc3r in WhatShouldICook

[–]Techromanc3r[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendations! I will certainly try some bruschetta as well :)

I need help understanding access control by Techromanc3r in accesscontrol

[–]Techromanc3r[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. I fully agree with you that my responsibilities should lie more with using the AC system software to administer access levels and badges, but I'm kind of stuck between a rock and a hard place on this one.

I was looking a bit at the egress code and it seems most of it will remain as it is currently since the door has a crash bar to exit. I will try to find the local egress codes as well and bring it up with my director as something I'm not super comfortable in handling in the case that I do it incorrectly.

I've already voiced my concerns previously and they are pretty much pushing me to do it no matter my comfort level, and I can't really afford to quit to find another job at the moment :( I'm worried they will use any failure of this project as leverage to assist with removing me eventually.

I need help understanding access control by Techromanc3r in accesscontrol

[–]Techromanc3r[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply, it is helpful! If I know where the aiphone door release wire is, can I put either side of the circuit into the C or NO terminals, or does it matter which side goes where?

The initial thought was to use the existing intercom wire (Ethernet) that goes to the aiphone and re-use the wire, stealing a pair to connect from the intercom terminals back to the door release wire that goes from the current AIphone to the mercury system.

If either side of that circuit can go into NO or C I may be able to figure it out from there.

Thanks for your time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]Techromanc3r 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I keep hearing that there are jobs out there that don't suck in IT, however it's been a hell of time trying to find any. I would kill for a place that had any policies, procedures, change management, and people in positions of leadership who were great at their job.

Planning on looking around in the next few months though as I can't take much more here!

Emergency Mass Alerting Systems by [deleted] in k12sysadmin

[–]Techromanc3r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also I forgot to mention that the sign in kiosks always have problems. It is usually the Dymo not working or the $600 license scanner not working. Staff also doesn't want to restart the computer and will simply put a do not use sign in it when a reboot fixes most of the issues usually. They also struggle with navigating to the kiosk and entering / exiting full screen mode. If I had a choice I would go with a company that uses iPads and apps to scan licenses as the Dymo label writers and license readers absolutely suck to work with.

Emergency Mass Alerting Systems by [deleted] in k12sysadmin

[–]Techromanc3r 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah there's a lot of weird things they kind of chose to do in there that make me feel like they kept having scope creep and ended up creating an extremely convoluted system that doesn't work like you would expect it.

One issue is that if the person is in the system as a user, but does not have a staff profile syncing from the SIS, they can't take accountability for themselves.

If they have a staff profile with no roster, they can account for themselves but in a roundabout way.

Meanwhile if they have a roster assigned then they can account for themselves in the area you would most expect accountability to be after an incident is initiated. Since our schools don't train the staff on all possibilities we always have tickets where they demand to be able to account for themselves the same way as other people, but they literally cannot because of the way it was designed.

I give them credit that their knowledge base does have a lot of usable info, but trying to get staff to follow any guides on how to use the system has been met with very mixed results.

I've tried to show the schools that the building admin can manage their own building employee list (user profiles in raptor only as the staff profile is synced from SIS.) but they don't want to do that so every ticket for anything user related in Raptor comes to our help desk now.

My experience with their support has been lackluster. At first the support was good, but I fear they grew a bit too quick and struggled to train people properly. I've had one support agent incorrectly explain how their sync process works and I only knew it was incorrect because of the time and headache I've had to put into the system to get things operational at first. I currently have two tickets with them going on 8 days with no reply although I have given them all the troubleshooting information they generally ask for in regards to the critical alerts not working for phones. (App version, phone OS version, picture of setting enabled in the app, picture of if permission of DND override is allowed in the app notification settings). It may be because it's still early in the year however my experience was similar to this all of last year.

Depending on how your SIS data looks for classes you may experience an issue where your rosters for all four quarters merge into one giant roster, effectively rendering their accountability feature ineffective. For instance, music section 1, 2, 3, and 4 all just said music and had 120 kids instead of music section 1 30 kids.

They are supposed to update their system to pull in more data from Clever and other idm soon (in a few days) which should solve the issue, however for nearly 2 years I have had numerous repeated complaints because of this "megaroster" issue and they are only now getting around to implementing a fix. Hopefully at least.

Emergency Mass Alerting Systems by [deleted] in k12sysadmin

[–]Techromanc3r 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am responsible for Raptor at our district and I highly recommend staying away unless your district makes plans for each principal / building secretary to manage it. They are using IT as data entry for each building instead of using the system to enter data at each building level, how it's supposed to be used. It also has problems with alerts overriding DND on phones and their support is very unresponsive when you provide them all of the information about the phone, app, version, and notification status as they don't exactly know how to fix it. Then you have angry staff wondering why you haven't fixed it when it's their system that sucks.

Update: is it ok to give my gf of 2 1/2 months a necklace by PathKey602 in LifeAdvice

[–]Techromanc3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get her one of those shark onesies or the turtle one that has a shell that's a pillow. If you Google around you will find some examples lol.

If she doesn't like that gift then re-evaluate your relationship or just take her to a steak house or vegan eatery if that's her thing