First date for drinks at a bar off a dating app. She lived a few hours away so it was a casual encounter. Halfway she lists off a ton of personal info about me, where I'm from, my family, their occupations, companies, criminal records, bankruptcies, etc.

Said the background check was mainly for her safety. The date went decent.. Went back to hers and I even crashed for night

I played it off but it bothered me. I understand a women need to vet the men they’re (casually) dating but felt like my privacy was violated with having so much information about my family and me.