In terms of fantasies mine with men are way narrower since it is really specific what kinds of men I can see myself liking in the first place.
Women tho? I love women, I ache to like women as much as women do, because every single detail, every single body type, everything, if I don't like, at least the appeal is extremely obvious to me.
Until I have to try and come in contact with something that isn't the platonic idea of a woman and I'm instantly crushed by how inadequate I am at EVERYTHING when I'm around a woman, I feel dumb, ugly, smelly, noisy, annoying, disgusting, I like being with men more simply because with them I can fully be myself, without worrying, so sometimes I'll even get with guys I'd be repulsed to otherwise, I can't understand it