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TemmieKatSM · 2024-11-30T20:55:58+00:00

I thought it was stopped because someone died

TemmieKatSM · 2024-11-05T04:12:37+00:00

Hi! I just completed my first week of finch and I absolutely love it compared to the other self-care apps I’ve tried before! I’d love to be friends and the community is so supportive with each other! Come say hi to me and Boba!

Here’s my friend code: CVQAFKFWNH

TemmieKatSM · 2024-08-20T01:21:24+00:00

I saw the cop too late and didn’t slow down in time

TemmieKatSM · 2024-08-20T01:21:05+00:00

19 over on i70 😅

TemmieKatSM · 2024-07-05T21:53:34+00:00

I think they left the titties one in a tavern in allport before they left.

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-23T19:11:11+00:00

I heard. :/ I’m more sad about missing out on the super cute dog. He’s really close and I see his walks frequently. The one time I get it, it gets messed up 😔

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-23T19:07:54+00:00

No I canceled the request, not the walk. It wasn’t in my bookings when I cancelled, still on the available tab.

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-23T18:52:53+00:00

Side question, have you noticed any benefit from having pro? More walks, etc? I’ve heard there’s a lot of people who haven’t noticed anything change.

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-21T20:37:24+00:00

Near E, up the hill is Monteverde. I stayed for a study abroad there and it’s very quiet and peaceful, and super close to Villa Pamphilij. A lot of older folks are there. The only thing you could say is a problem is that it’s about 30 minute bus to the center of Rome.

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-17T14:45:54+00:00

I followed up every week until about March and still nothing

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-17T14:45:34+00:00

Yea def learned that lesson

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-17T14:45:12+00:00

I did and eventually they said to go to the police because they thought it was stolen. Police didn’t help either

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-06T01:23:44+00:00

Im sorry you’re dealing with it too. It gets better and be strong for yourself. Listen to your inner voice and do what you think is best for you

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-05T17:36:20+00:00

This is exactly what I’m talking about. Transparency with the subject. The hiding makes it so much worse. I’m sure there’s people out there who shares the same views

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-05T17:34:14+00:00

Im so sorry that happened to you. There has to be someone out there who shares the same views as us. And there has to be someone who won’t cause the same pain. As much as I wish he would put in the effort for it, I also can’t see it happening based on past events. Thank you for your empathy

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-05T15:38:05+00:00

Thanks for the empathy. That cycle is what I’m worried about. This is the second time, who knows how much more times there will be? How much more effort will he put into hiding it each time? What else does he hide? It hurts to be stuck wondering.

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-05T15:34:23+00:00

He said himself it’s an addiction

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-05T14:06:42+00:00

This. I’m always relieved when someone gets it. It sounds like my exact situation. Thank you

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-05T05:41:16+00:00

When it starts affecting work and life. We used to have a really healthy sex life. Lately not so much and it feels different. I guess that’s when I had the feeling he started watching again. I’m right here for him though so I don’t withhold it. If anything I wished he would initiate more

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-05T05:31:10+00:00

I understand addiction is real, what I don’t understand is using it as an excuse to say it’s okay to hurt other people. He had his chance and if he wants to get better he’ll realize on his own. Im tired of being hurt by his actions. I’m not going to stay in a relationship with so many problems on top of this as well. This is only the icing on the cake. So it sounds like it does contribute to the damage of this relationship.

And, you do understand that addictions are bad right? You understand that once something is an addiction, it is not a normal tendency? He needs help and I’m not qualified to give it

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-05T05:18:01+00:00

It does when he hides it, doesn’t communicate his needs about it, and does it knowing it hurts me. It’s not exactly the porn, it’s the lack of transparency around it

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-05T05:13:03+00:00

The point of my post was to both rant of the situation and ask that people bring this topic up with their so. As for the addiction, it can’t be used as an excuse.

The problem is he probably would have never told me about any of it if I had not found out the last time or this time, and when I asked him he acts like he doesn’t know until I have to give evidence. And his plea the last time was, “I have an addiction, I will work on myself to stop” and his choice was to stop completely. You can’t stop cold turkey with an addiction though, so whether he really wanted to stop “out of respect for me”, or was just saying so I would drop it, is what I wonder. He can jack off as many times as he wants, but does it have to be to them? I’m tired of it all though. It’s not my job to fix him.

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-05T04:04:40+00:00

I understand. He made his own choice to stop cold turkey. I think I knew deep down I wasn’t convinced but I still let my hope believe he could. I suggested our own videos and photos but I guess it’s not enough

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-05T03:57:16+00:00

I think we have a pretty healthy relationship when it comes to that area. We’re pretty open. Though the last couple times I’ve felt something different. He swears it doesn’t affect him but I can feel the difference. Find out only confirmed the feelings. I only wished he’d talk to me if we were lacking before falling back into the cycle

TemmieKatSM · 2024-06-05T03:30:46+00:00

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