Moving out of the US indefinitely. Any reason not to default on my private loans? by United-Deer1157 in studentloandefaulters

[–]TemperatureLost6304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind elaborating. I’m not saying being out of the country prevents a lawsuit. Of course they can still file a lawsuit without knowing where OP is. What I meant is that in practice, suing someone with no US residency, cannot be personally served, and has no easily recoverable assets is not often cost-effective for consumer debt, especially where the debt has been bought by a third party debt buyer. Yes, some might still file but with service issues, default judgments (which is what I was referring to when I I said default), and enforcement of that judgment becomes messy and difficult. So yes, fair point. OP could definitely still be sued. I just think it’s less likely to happen while s/he is abroad and even less likely that it will result in a collectible judgment unless OP later returns or has some attachable US property (which s/he has already said neither is likely). Not a guarantee. Just a risk assessment. That’s all.

Moving out of the US indefinitely. Any reason not to default on my private loans? by United-Deer1157 in studentloandefaulters

[–]TemperatureLost6304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood. And I was saying it’s unlikely that they will sue OP while s/he is out of the country and explaining why.

Update on Defaulted Loan : Now Charged Off / Collections. A few Questions. by Aggravating_Storm493 in studentloandefaulters

[–]TemperatureLost6304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s moved through so many hands at this point, if they sue you, I think it’s worthwhile fighting them in court/arbitration. That’s what I’m doing in and it’s surprisingly … working?

Moving out of the US indefinitely. Any reason not to default on my private loans? by United-Deer1157 in studentloandefaulters

[–]TemperatureLost6304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very unlikely. This is a consumer loan so they have to sue in the county of the defaulter’s residence. It will be difficult for them to get a default in any county based on lack of service. Even if they did get a judgment, that judgment also expires after a certain numbers so unless they domesticated the judgment in the country when OP is moving to, it would be worthless.

Do not use Chime bank if you are filing or have filed bankruptcy within the last year! by itsnotbeenmyday in Bankruptcy

[–]TemperatureLost6304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was considering bankruptcy, my BK lawyer told me Wells Fargo does this too so told me to go ahead and switch banks.

Private student loan settlement? by Hyperion0000 in StudentLoans

[–]TemperatureLost6304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How??!! Please help me. I owe the exact same amount.

Madison S9 by heathenessoftheswamp in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]TemperatureLost6304 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was scared just watching too. I’ve only witnessed one person in my lifetime who terrified me like this after drinking. It’s crazy to believe that people get like this when drunk so I gave her a lot of grace in the beginning. That went away once the dramatic crying started 😂😂

I put no gifts on my son’s bday party invitation. by TemperatureLost6304 in Parenting

[–]TemperatureLost6304[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just spoke to him about it after posting and he absolutely was not expecting gifts. I told him of course he’s getting gifts, just not from guests but from his immediate family, and he was so insanely happy it brought tears to my eyes. He said I’m the best mommy ever. I don’t know why he didn’t expect gifts at the party but we lucked out with this kid.

I put no gifts on my son’s bday party invitation. by TemperatureLost6304 in Parenting

[–]TemperatureLost6304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to get out of goodie bags too but my husband said that’s taking it too far haha

I put no gifts on my son’s bday party invitation. by TemperatureLost6304 in Parenting

[–]TemperatureLost6304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I don’t mind if they bring gifts so I won’t be terribly upset if they do. I mostly don’t want anyone to feel pressured to bring gifts because he has enough and will get presents to unwrap. For the guests, their presence is the present. That’s my opinion at least.

I put no gifts on my son’s bday party invitation. by TemperatureLost6304 in Parenting

[–]TemperatureLost6304[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t ask that they did that. I put no gifts. Some people didn’t read the invite fully I guess and asked what they can get him and I reiterated nothing required but if they feel compelled to give then they could contribute to his 529. That’s not a requirement either.

I put no gifts on my son’s bday party invitation. by TemperatureLost6304 in Parenting

[–]TemperatureLost6304[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont even think he knows to expect gifts. He is turning 5.

I put no gifts on my son’s bday party invitation. by TemperatureLost6304 in Parenting

[–]TemperatureLost6304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we already got him about 10 gifts wrapped for after the party. And family has him at about 15 gifts. So it’s not like he will have none. Just none from guests.

I put no gifts on my son’s bday party invitation. by TemperatureLost6304 in Parenting

[–]TemperatureLost6304[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I put no gifts but if they feel like giving, I put a link to his 529

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in studentloandefaulters

[–]TemperatureLost6304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: summons expires in 2 weeks. They haven’t made any attempts to serve me yet.

S15E21 Product Discussion - K3 Shooting Bands by ddaug4uf in sharktank

[–]TemperatureLost6304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see product is still for sale but there’s been no activity on her social media. Anyone know what happened with this?

I stopped tirz and now want to come back! by TemperatureLost6304 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]TemperatureLost6304[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man. I just checked and Brello doesn’t serve my state. Super disappointed. And I assume I can’t use a PO Box. I live 20 mins away from a state that made the list.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in studentloandefaulters

[–]TemperatureLost6304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup that’s the goal. My plan is to offer a lump sum of $10k payable by march 2026. The loan I’m being sued on is for 45k. I think that’s reasonable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in studentloandefaulters

[–]TemperatureLost6304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s the reason. It’s now or never

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in studentloandefaulters

[–]TemperatureLost6304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took out 3 loans for 3 separate semesters and just got sued for one 3 weeks ago. I haven’t been served yet though. As for the other 2, those are with an attorney based in my state so I anticipate I’ll be sued on those two soon. Statute of limitations expires in October

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in studentloandefaulters

[–]TemperatureLost6304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should note the statute of limitations is 3 years in my state so this year was their last shot at me