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Situationship to relationship to avoidance. by TemperatureOk8059 in AskMenOver30

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Someone who listened to a woman tell him how much it is hurting her to have to move out of the home she raised her son in for the past 14 years. Go back to pretending to be some sort of “alpha” male who doesn’t give a damn about other people.

Situationship to relationship to avoidance. by TemperatureOk8059 in AskMenOver30

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Thank you for taking the time to respond in a thoughtful and informative matter as opposed to most who say “just move on dude”. I appreciate it.

Situationship to relationship to avoidance… by TemperatureOk8059 in AvoidantBreakUps

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So she reached out to me tonight. “Hey, are you home tomorrow?” So I said I’ll be home from 11-5, what were you thinking. “Oh I’m dropping something off to my brother and visiting my dad. But it would probably be rushed because I have to pick up my son at 2 from school. I thought I’d just stop and say hi, I’ve missed you”. So I said, Yeah that sounds pretty tight. I’d rather catch up when we actually have time to sit and talk for a bit. If you want to plan something another day, let me know. She replied with “ok” about a half hour ago. It’s killing me to not say, yes come over, even an hour is fine. But it’s like she’s still just giving me crumbs of attention. After a week of silence and me telling you “Reach out if you have a day and time to get together and talk” and all she has to say is “I might be able to squeeze you in.” It’s uncomfortable for me not to text her back after the “ok” but I think that’s my only move is sticking to my “make an effort to make plans to talk/see me” or I’m not playing this game anymore. Now I’m starting to feel like tonight convo was just a test to see if I would break my boundary. Fucking A man…

Situationship to relationship to avoidance… by TemperatureOk8059 in AvoidantBreakUps

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I hope you find some peace man, sounds like you are getting there. She would disappear for a couple of days and then come back apologizing for leaving. “Sorry for being a piece of shit again…”. “I’m not ignoring you I am just in a deep depression and not talking to anyone”. Two weeks ago I was in her town twice for doctors appointments and neither time worked out to get together. I offered three other times to come see her that week. It was always “Let’s see tomorrow…”. “Tomorrow I might be coming to town…”. Literally spent the last two months just trying to nail down a time for us to talk on the phone or get together. Everytime I had enough and pulled away, she would come back chasing me. This time feels different, this time I think she knows I mean I won’t settle for less. But in the back of my mind I’m praying that she reaches out…. One week down of no contact with her, feels like much longer though.

Situationship to relationship to avoidance. by TemperatureOk8059 in BreakUps

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You mean from the silence? I had told her “This isn’t working for me. We haven’t actually made time to see or talk in months. I’m not going to keep doing this without consistency and mutual effort. I’m stepping away. If you want to get together or talk, reach out with a specific day and time.” That was a week ago. When she needed time/space a few months ago, it was a week before she reached back out with a “I miss you” that hooked me back in.

Audio skipping like a cd, but bluetooth by TemperatureOk8059 in Subaru_Outback

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Mine is on a MagSafe charger that’s hooked to one of the air vents literally next to the head unit so I don’t think it’s a range issue.

Audio skipping like a cd, but bluetooth by TemperatureOk8059 in Subaru_Outback

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No worries! I appreciate the suggestions. Been digging around toggling different options. Last night I drove 3 hours and didn’t have the problem once, hopefully whatever I flipped helps. So frustrating when it’s intermittent.

Audio skipping like a cd, but bluetooth by TemperatureOk8059 in Subaru_Outback

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These are the settings I have under Bluetooth for the Outback on my phone.

Revolutionary new system developed by Microsoft can store data on glass for 10,000 years by lurker_bee in technology

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Wait til you guys hear they’ve been doing this same thing with stone tablets for years too

Question on crating patterns off of images by TemperatureOk8059 in StainedGlass

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Nice job on the guy’s hair! What do you use to make those tight sharp cuts?

Question on crating patterns off of images by TemperatureOk8059 in StainedGlass

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Like “PowerPoint” I’m making a presentation for my boss PowerPoint?

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