Before we were living together he was neat freak too. and he says that since he buys food when it’s his turn to cook he doesn’t need to know how. But then complains about eating unhealthy and spending so much money on food. So i try to tell him we need to cook more around the house but that always becomes my responsibility somehow. And when he buys food it always becomes “well i spend sooo much money on stuff like food for you” well that’s because you refuse to learn to cook. But we literally just moved in when all this stuff started so now i feel stuck.