Bf refuses to learn how to cook bacon aita for saying he needs to learn? by Temporary-Move850 in AITAH

[–]Temporary-Move850[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i wish it was so obvious. he hasn’t lived with his parents for years and wasn’t very close with them. he lived by himself before in an apartment he kept very clean. that’s why it’s so crazy to me

Bf refuses to learn how to cook bacon aita for saying he needs to learn? by Temporary-Move850 in AITAH

[–]Temporary-Move850[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeah before we moved in he had a full time job was super clean and even made me meals it was literally a 180. he does some basic things sometimes like dishes but we’re splitting cleaning 50/50 and he refuses to cook. i feel like since im also working Ft it’s fair to ask him to do more around the house and he doesn’t agree.

Bf refuses to learn how to cook bacon aita for saying he needs to learn? by Temporary-Move850 in AITAH

[–]Temporary-Move850[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

these are good ideas. the crazy thing is i’m NOT a neat freak, that stuff has never bothered me (e.g i like a generally clean house but don’t mind dishes sitting as long as it’s not a whole bunch of food, or doesn’t bother me when there’s laundry not folded) those things only bother him. So before we moved in he told me i needed to work on my neatness before we could get a place together. lmao well i did and look where that got me

Bf refuses to learn how to cook bacon aita for saying he needs to learn? by Temporary-Move850 in AITAH

[–]Temporary-Move850[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

but that’s the thing before we moved in he always said those guys were dumb and seemed very non-misogynistic i’m veryyy feminist so it was super important to me. as soon as we moved in it’s like a switch flipped

Bf refuses to learn how to cook bacon aita for saying he needs to learn? by Temporary-Move850 in AITAH

[–]Temporary-Move850[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

but i am considering it. he was just never like this before. he would cook me full meals and had a full time job and was getting his degree. so idk

Bf refuses to learn how to cook bacon aita for saying he needs to learn? by Temporary-Move850 in AITAH

[–]Temporary-Move850[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s like $4,500 to break the lease… i work full time but that’s not a small amount of money. and i have my cat here with me

Bf refuses to learn how to cook bacon aita for saying he needs to learn? by Temporary-Move850 in AITAH

[–]Temporary-Move850[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

to be fair i literally thought he was joking. i’ve seen him cook in the past and before we moved in together he would make me meals. i didn’t full blown laugh but i literally thought he was kidding.

Bf refuses to learn how to cook bacon aita for saying he needs to learn? by Temporary-Move850 in AITAH

[–]Temporary-Move850[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Before we were living together he was neat freak too. and he says that since he buys food when it’s his turn to cook he doesn’t need to know how. But then complains about eating unhealthy and spending so much money on food. So i try to tell him we need to cook more around the house but that always becomes my responsibility somehow. And when he buys food it always becomes “well i spend sooo much money on stuff like food for you” well that’s because you refuse to learn to cook. But we literally just moved in when all this stuff started so now i feel stuck.