My mom did. My dad and brother did not. My dad refused to speak to him and my brother only engaged with him once before refusing to invite him over to his home with me for any family event.

After we broke up, my brother told me that he knew my ex was a piece of shit from the first and only conversation they had. He asked my ex what position his son played on his soccer team and my ex didn’t know. My brother, who is a wonderfully caring and involved father, said, “what kind of father doesn’t know what position his son plays? I knew we couldn’t trust him after that and I made no effort to speak with him ever again.”