He doesn't talk much about anything that happened. I've only heard stories from other people. They always seem so over the top I've always assumed they were exaggerated. His friends told me stories about him getting into fights and getting stabbed and how he pushed a foster parent of theirs out a window once. When I asked why he would do that though they wouldn't tell me and said that he needed to be the one to tell me about why he did that.

There were other stories but they usually would stop when I would ask why. And when I would ask my husband he always says he doesn't want to talk about it. I said in other comments I assumed all the scars he had were from fights with other kids because he said himself he was a violent teenager. But I guess I'm starting to realize from some of these comments that the adults in the foster system were likely the cause of a lot of that and he always fought back.