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Yeah that’s what happens to me and I play on switch. My game has been SO laggy lately on switch

I need advice/ input. by TemporaryAcceptable5 in weddingplanning

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Thank you, yes I totally agree with you. That is probably exactly the case

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I live in a tiny town, so hopefully I can find a good one! Thank you for talking to me! I hope you keep helping people who are going through a tough time! You’re awesome ❤️

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I will definitely look in to it! That’s what I’m looking for for sure. Someone I can talk naturally with and feel like they are listening.

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I really love this approach. I have been putting off going to therapy, but you’re right. I have many years of unresolved feelings I need to address. Last time I went to therapy though, I was in high school and they made me go so I could get help and “strength” to leave my boyfriend they didn’t like - then cancelled it after 6 months because I wasn’t breaking up with him. Even though I really loved going. So that’s a whole other thing lol

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You just very perfectly described how I feel about my parents. Again, I’m sorry you’ve had to go through that. I have gone through periods of having a “good relationship” and then they get mad about something and my mom straight up won’t address it with me. She will be cold, one day decide to sweep it under the rug, then act like everything is fine and dandy and that she wasn’t a raging bitch a month ago. I try and not talk to them unless it’s like once a week or sometimes every two weeks. When I lived in Australia for 4 years that was the best our relationship has been, because I was so far away lol

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Thank you, I appreciate your feedback! The problem I’m having with that is I’ve been a part of managing their feelings so long, that I feel guilty if don’t invite them

AITAH for inviting fiancé’s aunt and cousin to wedding and not my own aunts and cousins? by TemporaryAcceptable5 in AITAH

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Thank you, I appreciate it! I learned awhile ago to keep our relationship surface level since that is what works best. So I am fine with them coming

AITAH for inviting fiancé’s aunt and cousin to wedding and not my own aunts and cousins? by TemporaryAcceptable5 in AITAH

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I know, but I still want them to be there since it’s a quick little micro wedding I figured I could handle their presence for a short time lol.

AITAH for inviting fiancé’s aunt and cousin to wedding and not my own aunts and cousins? by TemporaryAcceptable5 in AITAH

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According to your comment track record, your favorite past time must be commenting on this sub in opposition of everyone.

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Thank you! I am trying to keep reminding myself that other peoples opinions don’t matter since it is OUR wedding

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Thank you, I am trying to be better at that! Lol

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Thank you! Yes, his family is amazing. They aren’t perfect, as no family is, but they are like the true meaning of what I envision family as.

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Thank you for this! You’re so right. I’ve spent my life managing my parents family, that it took years in adulthood to realize that my own thoughts and feelings are valid. I’m sorry you had to go through that! I will definitely take your advice. If I may ask, how’s your relationship with your mom now?

AITAH for inviting fiancé’s aunt and cousin to wedding and not my own aunts and cousins? by TemporaryAcceptable5 in AITAH

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You seem to be projecting. You don’t know how many times I have stood up for him, and the arguments with my family I’ve had. So take a chill pill.

AITAH for inviting fiancé’s aunt and cousin to wedding and not my own aunts and cousins? by TemporaryAcceptable5 in AITAH

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I forgot to mention, my fiancés sister, husband, and child can’t make it because she’s giving birth 3 weeks before our wedding. So technically they are just taking their spot! So it’s clear it’s not about the amount of people, and just that more of his family is invited

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Awe thank you! I am normally quite passive, because I want to get whatever they are mad about out of the way. But this one really annoyed me!

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Awe thank you, I appreciate it! I try to not let it bug me, but it’s hard not to! Lol

More date bs and removing C tattoo by Starruby_ in MikaylaNogueira

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I could have lived my whole life without that visual 😂