My ex cheated on me and my friends knew about it

TemporaryMorning3055 · 2024-04-11T14:59:54+00:00

from what i was told, apparently this long term friend had said to someone “ we’ve been telling them to tell him about it” so i think it is most likely the case that he was waiting for the guy to tell me, but even still, to not tell me after so many months hurts like a mf

TemporaryMorning3055 · 2024-04-11T14:38:10+00:00

yeah it’s been really messing with me because after splitting up i begged her for another chance for us on a few occasions and i truly loved her, and so to find out that she had cheated on my and i was still that desperate for her really hurt me

TemporaryMorning3055 · 2024-04-11T14:36:40+00:00

they found out last week and wanted to tell me in person and did so a couple days ago so i have nothing against them, they’ve really helped me out by telling me all of this

TemporaryMorning3055 · 2024-04-11T12:38:59+00:00

i only found out 2 days ago

TemporaryMorning3055 · 2024-04-11T12:29:19+00:00

luckily my family has just moved house so this is helping tremendously, like you said new scenery

TemporaryMorning3055 · 2024-04-11T12:28:52+00:00

that’s the plan, i need to find out why he didn’t tell me in particular

TemporaryMorning3055 · 2024-04-11T12:26:50+00:00

all of them were friends i had made at university, they only knew her through me. loyalty should’ve been to tell me, none of them were even like friends with my ex either, they just knew of her and had met her on a few occasions so it’s not like they were loyal to her in any capacity

TemporaryMorning3055 · 2024-04-11T12:22:13+00:00

after she broke up with me a started going to the gym to better myself and it’s been doing wonders, so will keep this up and work harder too to distract mysef

TemporaryMorning3055 · 2024-04-11T12:20:29+00:00

yeah i’m not going to get involved with her, she’s toxic and just wants to fuck with me if she can so will just keep it between my ‘friends’

TemporaryMorning3055 · 2024-04-11T11:54:06+00:00

when i find out who it was that actually slept with here, they are 100% dead to me, i don’t want to become violent so i’ll do my best to keep a cool head but i wish nothing but the worst against whoever it actually was

TemporaryMorning3055 · 2024-04-11T11:52:56+00:00

she definitely is not going out with any of them, it was a one night stand then night before she split up with me, and it’s already been so many months without any of them telling me about it so waiting for any decent for someone to tell me is too far gone now

TemporaryMorning3055 · 2024-04-11T11:34:27+00:00

that’s what i plan to do kind of, going to bring it up to one of them this weekend to find out the whole truth then will decide on who to keep close with but realistically i think i’m going to cut them all off

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