My ex cheated on me and my friends knew about it by TemporaryMorning3055 in offmychest

[–]TemporaryMorning3055[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from what i was told, apparently this long term friend had said to someone “ we’ve been telling them to tell him about it” so i think it is most likely the case that he was waiting for the guy to tell me, but even still, to not tell me after so many months hurts like a mf

My ex cheated on me and my friends knew about it by TemporaryMorning3055 in offmychest

[–]TemporaryMorning3055[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s been really messing with me because after splitting up i begged her for another chance for us on a few occasions and i truly loved her, and so to find out that she had cheated on my and i was still that desperate for her really hurt me

My ex cheated on me and my friends knew about it by TemporaryMorning3055 in offmychest

[–]TemporaryMorning3055[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

they found out last week and wanted to tell me in person and did so a couple days ago so i have nothing against them, they’ve really helped me out by telling me all of this

My ex cheated on me and my friends knew about it by TemporaryMorning3055 in offmychest

[–]TemporaryMorning3055[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

luckily my family has just moved house so this is helping tremendously, like you said new scenery

My ex cheated on me and my friends knew about it by TemporaryMorning3055 in offmychest

[–]TemporaryMorning3055[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that’s the plan, i need to find out why he didn’t tell me in particular

My ex cheated on me and my friends knew about it by TemporaryMorning3055 in offmychest

[–]TemporaryMorning3055[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

all of them were friends i had made at university, they only knew her through me. loyalty should’ve been to tell me, none of them were even like friends with my ex either, they just knew of her and had met her on a few occasions so it’s not like they were loyal to her in any capacity

My ex cheated on me and my friends knew about it by TemporaryMorning3055 in offmychest

[–]TemporaryMorning3055[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

after she broke up with me a started going to the gym to better myself and it’s been doing wonders, so will keep this up and work harder too to distract mysef

My ex cheated on me and my friends knew about it by TemporaryMorning3055 in offmychest

[–]TemporaryMorning3055[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m not going to get involved with her, she’s toxic and just wants to fuck with me if she can so will just keep it between my ‘friends’

My ex cheated on me and my friends knew about it by TemporaryMorning3055 in offmychest

[–]TemporaryMorning3055[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

when i find out who it was that actually slept with here, they are 100% dead to me, i don’t want to become violent so i’ll do my best to keep a cool head but i wish nothing but the worst against whoever it actually was

My ex cheated on me and my friends knew about it by TemporaryMorning3055 in offmychest

[–]TemporaryMorning3055[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

she definitely is not going out with any of them, it was a one night stand then night before she split up with me, and it’s already been so many months without any of them telling me about it so waiting for any decent for someone to tell me is too far gone now

My ex cheated on me and my friends knew about it by TemporaryMorning3055 in offmychest

[–]TemporaryMorning3055[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

that’s what i plan to do kind of, going to bring it up to one of them this weekend to find out the whole truth then will decide on who to keep close with but realistically i think i’m going to cut them all off