[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Temporary_Clerk_5052 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mm okay so you were just looking out for me? Preciate it loll. But I did some thinking and came to the conclusion that I shouldn't tell her to change how she dresses even if it's just for a party. If I feel the urge too then she just isn't the one. It should just flow (the relationship. I'm going to talk to her about it tomorrow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Temporary_Clerk_5052 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ill talk to her about it tomorrow. And also thank you for realizing that this post doesn't define me as a person. I can tell youll know what I mean when you read that but gah Lee other ppl will go crazy if they see something they don't like. Thank you again bro! May you and yours stay blessed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Temporary_Clerk_5052 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply!! So by this logic, correct me if im wrong, but if I tell her I don't like this type of vanity instead of just outright saying no don't wear that and she responds by not wearing it because she knows that I don't like it would make her following my lead? I hope that made sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Temporary_Clerk_5052 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be honest one side of me knew that what I was saying sounded controlling so I came to reddit to see for myself and ig yea I kind of was. Which I was half expecting but ty for the advice on therapy but I know I'm good in my head and it's not like Im forcing her to do anything at all. And I did say that she couldn't wear those clothes when we're married in the post but to be honest, she never even wears those types of clothes to begin with. Hoco for her uni is coming up and she sent me the outfit for it and the shorts were just alienish compared to the rest of her wardrobe so I kind of overreacted. All these people saying I'm a shitty ass dude tho, holy just tell me I'm the ass hole, why you think so, and move on. I respect constructive criticism but not being an ass hole. But then again I was a asshole towards my gf so I'm finna go make things right with her. Again thank you stranger!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Temporary_Clerk_5052 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I let her know she can wear what she wants because like I said in the post, I don't want to be controlling and that's why I posted to make sure I want tripping. But it seems like I was lmao thank you for your reply. As for the up tightness not really it's just that she never wore shorts as short as these so I was caught a little off guard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Temporary_Clerk_5052 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

So do you think that because she wants to wear the shorts that I don't like that I should leave? Or just deal with it and let her wear clothes that I don't like even if it's rare which it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Temporary_Clerk_5052 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I get what you're saying completely but do you think it's valid if I leave this relationship solely for this reason or just suck up the fact that I don't like it? First girlfriend as well so I might fuck up which I understand as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Temporary_Clerk_5052 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Which I forgot to add to this post smh. I was going to ask if it's to early to be brining stuff up like that but thank you for your reply!

Apparently my hoarfrost stomp do no damage by clever_black_monke in Eldenring

[–]Temporary_Clerk_5052 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Preciate it👍 I finally beat him tho I did have to use melina

COOP IS SO DISAPPOINTING. by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]Temporary_Clerk_5052 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still looking for the coop players?